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Anonymous wrote:I didn't go to an Ivy. I went to state school, and BU for law school. I'm a partner in a law firm. The partner in the office next to me went to Harvard and Duke. Yet we both wound up at the same place at the same age. Tell me again about how it matters?

Sort of depends on your firm's Vault rank. You could be an overachieving outlier and your lettered colleague could be a slacker from his Duke law class. And aside from that, it's 2017, not the 1980s. A lot has changed.

Anonymous wrote:I don't think I'm anti-elite. I'm anti-attend the most expensive school without regard to how those student loans will impact your young life.

For those who can afford it...sure, go to an elite

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Anonymous wrote:I attended a no name school. Went to work at a very prestigious tech firm. Over time you came to realize that alot of your peers went to Ivy's, MIT, and often after going to the Andovers and Exeters of the world.

Some were scary smart and many not so much. Most, if not all, didn't discuss their pedigree.

Where the differences were: is I have to work for 5-7 years in the industry to get there, and get lucky, whereas they all went straight out of undergraduate/graduate and their networks (and sometimes their parents) helped. And their resumes still smoked mine because let's face it being a Princeton grad or Yale Law school grad is pretty studly.

And the other thing - they got educated. I went to school and worked to get a degree - they went to school to get educated- big difference in mindset. And they also understood the social aspects of life amongst the successful a lot better than I did. There was a level of refinement that they had that I lacked. That all said - some of them lacked the fire in the belly and it's the fire in the belly that eventually separates the men from the boys.

But don't forget - the real money is with the drop outs lol.

When I think of Elite I think of someone like this, parasites that retreat to potomac after extracting as much as they can.

Lawrence Lebowitz - publicly claimed the H1B laws help us workers, privately told clients how they avoided hiring us workers to hire cheaper foreign workers
Ivy League - University of Pennsylvania
https://www.cohenlaw.com/professionals/lawrence-m-lebowitz/
Example of Unethical Elite

And our goal is clearly, not to find a qualified and interested U.S. worker. And you know in a sense that sounds funny, but it`s what we`re trying to do here. We are complying with the law fully, but ah, our objective is to get this person a green card, and get through the labor certification process. So certainly we are not going to try to find a place [at which to advertise the job] where the applicants are the most numerous. We`re going to try to find a place where we can comply with the law, and hoping, and likely, not to find qualified and interested worker applicants.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCbFEgFajGU

thousands of unethical lawyers like this

Seriously, Dude, I didn't go to an Elite but I have no fricking clue what you are going on about.

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Anonymous wrote:I attended a no name school. Went to work at a very prestigious tech firm. Over time you came to realize that alot of your peers went to Ivy's, MIT, and often after going to the Andovers and Exeters of the world.

Some were scary smart and many not so much. Most, if not all, didn't discuss their pedigree.

Where the differences were: is I have to work for 5-7 years in the industry to get there, and get lucky, whereas they all went straight out of undergraduate/graduate and their networks (and sometimes their parents) helped. And their resumes still smoked mine because let's face it being a Princeton grad or Yale Law school grad is pretty studly.

And the other thing - they got educated. I went to school and worked to get a degree - they went to school to get educated- big difference in mindset. And they also understood the social aspects of life amongst the successful a lot better than I did. There was a level of refinement that they had that I lacked. That all said - some of them lacked the fire in the belly and it's the fire in the belly that eventually separates the men from the boys.

But don't forget - the real money is with the drop outs lol.

When I think of Elite I think of someone like this, parasites that retreat to potomac after extracting as much as they can.

Lawrence Lebowitz - publicly claimed the H1B laws help us workers, privately told clients how they avoided hiring us workers to hire cheaper foreign workers
Ivy League - University of Pennsylvania
https://www.cohenlaw.com/professionals/lawrence-m-lebowitz/
Example of Unethical Elite

And our goal is clearly, not to find a qualified and interested U.S. worker. And you know in a sense that sounds funny, but it`s what we`re trying to do here. We are complying with the law fully, but ah, our objective is to get this person a green card, and get through the labor certification process. So certainly we are not going to try to find a place [at which to advertise the job] where the applicants are the most numerous. We`re going to try to find a place where we can comply with the law, and hoping, and likely, not to find qualified and interested worker applicants.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCbFEgFajGU

thousands of unethical lawyers like this

Anonymous wrote:I attended a no name school. Went to work at a very prestigious tech firm. Over time you came to realize that alot of your peers went to Ivy's, MIT, and often after going to the Andovers and Exeters of the world.

Some were scary smart and many not so much. Most, if not all, didn't discuss their pedigree.

Where the differences were: is I have to work for 5-7 years in the industry to get there, and get lucky, whereas they all went straight out of undergraduate/graduate and their networks (and sometimes their parents) helped. And their resumes still smoked mine because let's face it being a Princeton grad or Yale Law school grad is pretty studly.

And the other thing - they got educated. I went to school and worked to get a degree - they went to school to get educated- big difference in mindset. And they also understood the social aspects of life amongst the successful a lot better than I did. There was a level of refinement that they had that I lacked. That all said - some of them lacked the fire in the belly and it's the fire in the belly that eventually separates the men from the boys.

But don't forget - the real money is with the drop outs lol.

Anonymous wrote:I attended a no name school. Went to work at a very prestigious tech firm. Over time you came to realize that alot of your peers went to Ivy's, MIT, and often after going to the Andovers and Exeters of the world.

Some were scary smart and many not so much. Most, if not all, didn't discuss their pedigree.

Where the differences were: is I have to work for 5-7 years in the industry to get there, and get lucky, whereas they all went straight out of undergraduate/graduate and their networks (and sometimes their parents) helped. And their resumes still smoked mine because let's face it being a Princeton grad or Yale Law school grad is pretty studly.

And the other thing - they got educated. I went to school and worked to get a degree - they went to school to get educated- big difference in mindset. And they also understood the social aspects of life amongst the successful a lot better than I did. There was a level of refinement that they had that I lacked. That all said - some of them lacked the fire in the belly and it's the fire in the belly that eventually separates the men from the boys.

But don't forget - the real money is with the drop outs lol.

Anonymous wrote:Serious question: what exactly is an elite college. I know the Ivies, MIT, Stanford, University of Chicago are considered elite - but what about the Claremont Colleges or Vanderbilt?

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Anonymous wrote:I have never known a person who attended an elite college who was anti-elite either. I didn't go to an elite college but I would like my kids to go if they can.

Is it the Dunning Kruger effect where people don't have any idea or concept of what they're talking about, yet talk freely about it anyways?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

I went to a good public college and then transferred into an elite and was blown away. It wasn't possible to imagine what it was like without real exposure. Yet people that didn't attend, no kids attending, not even a sibling or spouse who attended will go on and on about how overrated prestigious colleges are.

+1 And it will always sound like sour grapes. I agree with a PP - the kids who get in deserve credit.

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Anonymous wrote:I have never known a person who attended an elite college who was anti-elite either. I didn't go to an elite college but I would like my kids to go if they can.

Is it the Dunning Kruger effect where people don't have any idea or concept of what they're talking about, yet talk freely about it anyways?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

I went to a good public college and then transferred into an elite and was blown away. It wasn't possible to imagine what it was like without real exposure. Yet people that didn't attend, no kids attending, not even a sibling or spouse who attended will go on and on about how overrated prestigious colleges are.