honestly if I had to choose, I'd say I'd like benefits with no friendship thanks. And very little talking.

What about talking naughty?

If when I get ready enough to leave it won't be w an expectation of being in relationship again. Give me space and freedom and authentic relationships w non sexual lady friends.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I want a regular once a week or so guy. Have dinner. See a movie. Have sex. Maybe see a play, go fishing, Skyline drive. Not into daily chit chat.

And monogamous, while we are an item.

Why would a guy agree to be monogamous if you don't stay in regular contact and have sex only once a week?

NP

more than weekly is regular contact, nobody needs to talk every single day

The OP asked what she is looking for, she answered the question. If you don't like the offer move on. So many men are not getting it once a week so most would be happy with that.

Yes. Move on if you don't like her answer. Don't ask a question and then want to control the answer.

Boyfriend, but not really expecting to find one at this age.

+1

Why not?

Anonymous wrote:Boyfriend, but not really expecting to find one at this age.

+1

I think you'd be better off with a married guy who is not interested in a relationship and just wants weekly sex. No complications.

You mean "No complications until his wife finds out you are boinking her husband". Then the complications start.

You can find a single guy who can provide weekly (or more than weekly sex) and get it without worrying about a batshit crazy (or normal but upset) wife raining on the sex parade.

ddintysons wrote:

I'm recently divorced and have no desire to get into a relationship until I'm mentally in a much better place then I am now. No guy needs to hear my venting about the male species! On the other hand, after a non-existent sex life the last two years I'm very interested in a FWB. I'd love a weekly meet up with a nice guy who's in the same boat.

You would be a catch for the recently divorced male set in NoVA.

I think you'd be better off with a married guy who is not interested in a relationship and just wants weekly sex. No complications.

I'm recently divorced and have no desire to get into a relationship until I'm mentally in a much better place then I am now. No guy needs to hear my venting about the male species! On the other hand, after a non-existent sex life the last two years I'm very interested in a FWB. I'd love a weekly meet up with a nice guy who's in the same boat.

You would be a catch for the recently divorced male set in NoVA.

honestly if I had to choose, I'd say I'd like benefits with no friendship thanks. And very little talking

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Please pick me. I will keep my mouth shut.

Boyfriend, but not really expecting to find one at this age.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I want a regular once a week or so guy. Have dinner. See a movie. Have sex. Maybe see a play, go fishing, Skyline drive. Not into daily chit chat.

And monogamous, while we are an item.

Why would a guy agree to be monogamous if you don't stay in regular contact and have sex only once a week?

Well, your post was eye opening for me. I assumed a guy with a career, house, life, getting laid once a week with no serious strings would be a welcome change from the usual dating scene. I can see now why I may be having trouble finding this unicorn

I'm recently divorced and have no desire to get into a relationship until I'm mentally in a much better place then I am now. No guy needs to hear my venting about the male species! On the other hand, after a non-existent sex life the last two years I'm very interested in a FWB. I'd love a weekly meet up with a nice guy who's in the same boat.

Anonymous wrote:It's much much more for me than sex and holding hands.
Soulmate, protective and caring, someone I can rely on in bad situations and share happiness with.
I invest 100% in relationship and expect the same return.
I have it all. Met him a little later in life, after few, many, actually, disappointments .

+ 1 but I haven't met him yet

honestly if I had to choose, I'd say I'd like benefits with no friendship thanks. And very little talking.

And you are an idiot.

Read what the poster at said she wanted.

DDinTysons: even though I am married, I want a cross between FWB and boyfriend. Would be nice to go to a Nats game or dinner once in a while, but what I really want is good sex and good communication.