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I have this theory that Ben Affleck is pretty obviously a self involved narcissistic hot mess. People like that do not generally do well in long term relationships or in situations where they have to give to others.

I think from both his relatonships with the Jennifers he was utterly bored and felt suffocated. These women were clearly gaga about him and were all in. He liked the chase but once he had them wrapped around his finger, he got bored.

His body language/videos with both J.Lo and J. Garner are painful to watch because they are obviously gushing over him and he can't be bothered.









I get the sense that he thinks he's this deep intellectual and J.Lo is too low class for him.

J. Garner too mumsy and middle class. She is safe and predictable and adores him. But he also adores himself!





I think he probably felt the most invest with Gwyneth Paltrow. She is equally as self absorbed and actually during their tiem together did the push pull he usually pulls on women.






Gwyneth has never lacked self esteem. She thinks very highly of herself and can hold her own around him and even dare put him in his place! Apparently she really tried to class him up and guide and direct his artistic success. From the way he talks about her its obvious he holds her in high regard. For once he was not good enough for HER.

Both the Jennifers were gaga for him and he treated them like dirt.

Anonymous wrote:I'd like to offer myself up as Ben's rebound.

Love yourself.

Anonymous wrote:He never looked happy with Jennifer Garner. Never!!!

I agree. If you watch the video of them prior to dating when they were at the poker table, she couldn't keep her eyes off of him. He was a dick to her even then. She's a normal loving girl next door. He's a complete tool.

He never looked happy with Jennifer Garner. Never!!!

Anonymous wrote:J Garner was always way more into him than he was with her. She seems docile and submissive and he found that boring.

Personally I think he was happiest with J.Lo. But I love J Lo and would not wish this loser on her again.

I don't quite agree with the docile and submissive thing but I totally believe that she was WAY more into him; than he into her. I think she broke Scott Foley's heart so this seemly eerily karmic.

I am huge Ben Affleck fan but he ain't the marrying kind. I LOVE Scott Foley and he is sexier than Ben on any given day. I think she fell in love with the exciting movie star and ditched her boring TV actor spouse; the girl from W.Va got bit by Hollywood and it bit her in the butt.

I'd like to offer myself up as Ben's rebound.

Jennifer should find someone normal--like a doctor who thinks she and her kids are the greatest things ever. I can see her having a great marriage and a normal life apart from Ben.

Ben needs to stick with topless dancers and hookers. Permanently. Turn into a low class Leo.

Anonymous wrote:And for those who think "Bennifer" was real, come on! Second only to TomKat, that was the biggest staged relationship ever!

She was married when they first started flirting and his career was almost ruined following Bennifer, why would they stage that?

And for those who think "Bennifer" was real, come on! Second only to TomKat, that was the biggest staged relationship ever!

Ben should date Gwenyth Paltrow- they're both in love with themselves.

Agree that Jen should date someone non-famous. She deserves a nice, down-to-earth, normal, sober man.

Anonymous wrote:Ben & JLo were always the cutest couple to me.

I suspect they still carry a torch for each other and always will.

Jennifer should date Tom Hiddleston.
Taylor Swift's ex.

And Ben should go find that Nanny again.
They seem perfect for each other.

It's like the universe intervened to get Ben and Jlo together. Bennifer

Ben & JLo were always the cutest couple to me.

I suspect they still carry a torch for each other and always will.

Jennifer should date Tom Hiddleston.
Taylor Swift's ex.

And Ben should go find that Nanny again.
They seem perfect for each other.

Ben Affleck is such a douche.

I was watching his interview from long ago with J.Lo. and he is so rude and obnoxious while she seems lovely and so-in-love with him!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3R_ldnvZGac

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer - needs someone stable, an older (50s) wealthy man not in the entertainment industry
Ben - needs some excitement in his life, someone younger, non-traditional and independent. Scarlett Johansson, maybe Rihanna. But they shouldn't get serious. He should never get married again.

Why would a wealthy, younger celeb want an old, bloated, substance abuser? Except for the ones who like dealing with losers, like Katy Perry.

Those women aren't interested in LTRs. And Ben Affleck cleans up well when he wants to. Plus he's apparently well-endowed.