Anonymous wrote:Fucked UP = drunk
Want to get your ass kicked = lose at a game
Want to get fucked = want to get laid

No hetero man asks another hetero man if they want to get fucked if they are talking about playing cards.

Tell us more about this friend.

LOL

No one is talking about cards here.

Anonymous wrote:So your DH is guilty because of a text his no-good friend wrote? That hardly seems fair.

Now if you're husband responded and asked to be set up with a lady friend, different story..

I agree to a certain point, but disturbing is the fact he's blabbing about their sex life. I'd put my foot down there, probably time to let that friend go as suggested.

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Anonymous wrote:His friend is just being a dude. he meant sex. That is how man friends think sometimes unfortunately. I would just assure your husband that when spotting stops soon you two will be right back in the sack.

This as long as your DH is trustworthy. I'd step up the BJs though.

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That's not her responsibility. Perhaps something she doesn't care for. Either way inferring she'd better do this, or that to stop him from cheating is pretty disgusting. If that's the type of man she married then she made a BIG mistake. No one wants a fair weather spouse. There for good times, gone for the bad.

I think you are over reacting and insecure because of your current situation - which is not your fault by the way. However, the fact that you have not been intimate makes you feel as though your DH is going to stray. By the way, it could have been a typo (and left out the up as in f'ed up), or it could have been drunk. I can see both.

However, I can't imagine, that any of my guy friends would be stupid enough to send such an obvious text if it were something like facilitating cheating. More importantly, your DH is not hiding his phone or not allowing access to it.

If he were doing something bad, just by human nature, even subconsciously, I can assure you, you would not have had free access to his phone... Unless he is a complete moron.

Fucked UP = drunk
Want to get your ass kicked = lose at a game
Want to get fucked = want to get laid

No hetero man asks another hetero man if they want to get fucked if they are talking about playing cards.

Tell us more about this friend.

Women are hilarious...

No wonder so many marriages in DCUM land are so miserable.

So your DH is guilty because of a text his no-good friend wrote? That hardly seems fair.

Now if you're husband responded and asked to be set up with a lady friend, different story..

He's no doubt erased them by now. I don't think he meant drinking at all.

Did you look back at previous conversations? You need context. You should have looked at the other convos. It generally has the same meaning as blitzed. The other meaning is less likely and indicates he is offering sex with a prostitute or with him. I think he just meant blitzed.

Anonymous wrote:I'm 15 weeks pregnant and we stopped being intimate due to heavy spotting. I just went to change a video on his phone for my daughter and seen a new text pop up from his shady, no good friend saying "If you want to get f*#$ let me know"

I mentioned it to DH and he claims he means getting beat playing him in cards....mhm....opinions?

No. It means he will help out his sex life. I'd be watching those texts going forward and have a talk with DH. For one, neither of you should be talking about your sex life to others. You and your baby come before his needs fyi.
Obviously he has two hands.

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Anonymous wrote:Wait, so you thought your husband wanted to get butt fucked?

No, she thinks friend wants to set him up with a woman willing to f him.

That is what this friend is doing. Pretty obvious. OP sorry but you have problems. Obviously your husband was telling this loser too much about not having sex. I would be horrified he was telling so called friends this stuff. I would also make sure this
guy is out of your life and dh's. With marriage things change. You both want to have supportive couple friends. If someone single or part of a couple is trying to undermine your relationship they get 86'd.

Now as for your husband, doesn't matter about the sex. This is part of the marriage, and if one is sick or pregnant, he has 2 hands. What happens if you got cancer? You are not his sperm receptacle. Your health is number one, and if he's not supportive...then you have a much larger problem.

You do realize you don't have to have intercourse to satisfy each other?

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Anonymous wrote:His friend is just being a dude. he meant sex. That is how man friends think sometimes unfortunately. I would just assure your husband that when spotting stops soon you two will be right back in the sack.

This as long as your DH is trustworthy. I'd step up the BJs though.

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Anonymous wrote:Wtf?? I would assume he meant does your DH want to get drunk.

Unless you have major reasons to distrust your DH, I would not read into this.

Then the very important word "up" would be in there. It wasn't.

Anonymous wrote:His friend is just being a dude. he meant sex. That is how man friends think sometimes unfortunately. I would just assure your husband that when spotting stops soon you two will be right back in the sack.

This as long as your DH is trustworthy. I'd step up the BJs though.