Anonymous wrote:OP here. Don't really want to put out more identifying info, but appreciate the helpful thoughts. ED Penn did seem very attractive. Mostly, I'd like some BTDT advice about filling in the rest of the picks, including safer schools. I appreciate the lottery-like aspect of applications to the top-tier for kids whose stats are very strong, but not top 5%. And in answer to the last question, both kinds of answers are useful, in part because our counselor is overloaded and so I don't have a good sense of comparable safe schools/schools with great programs but not on our radar screen.
Definitely want to use the ED/EA card on the schools where your DC is a legacy. Would your DC consider suburban schools?