Anonymous
03/25/2017 02:44
Subject: Should widowed people avoid divorced people?
I have a friend who was widowed a year ago after a long and happy marriage. She's not looking to replace the love of her life but she's like to have some companionship.
Anonymous
03/25/2017 02:34
Subject: Should widowed people avoid divorced people?
That leaves the never-married or married people looking for an affair. I disagree that widowed and divorced people should be avoided. Just take things slowly.
Anonymous
03/21/2017 09:31
Subject: Re:Should widowed people avoid divorced people?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Invictus wrote:If my wife died or we divorced, I'd never re-marry. For me, its been a painful learning experience, but I can say that it got me into therapy(she wouldn't get any for herself)and in the past three years, I've discovered much about myself. I've grown, she hasn't.
You make no sense.
He makes perfect sense. Marriage, for him, hasn't been wonderful and he wouldn't do it again, but it did get him into therapy, where he began to understand himself and realize, too, that his wife has problems which she refuses to deal with. I've been there, too, with my ex. The only thing good that came out of that marriage was that it got me into therapy and that's where I really began to grow as a person. Nor have I re-married. I have a great bf, we don't live together and we give each other lots of space. I finally love myself and my life!
No, he didn't make perfect sense, it took some work to figure out what the previous poster meant. The "Its" was not well defined, so you don't know what "It" was (marriage, but you have to read between the lines to get that). But the "it" could have been an affair. The second poster wrote it out more clearly.