Doesn't pretty much every high school relationship end due to cheating? If it's not OP's son it'll be some other drunk kid at a senior party this semester.

ZachF wrote:The girl is fair game but he should be a gentleman and insist she end it with the other guy, assuming the interest is mutual.

No, that's stupid. He should totally leave it up to her what, if anything, she says to this other guy. He should neither know nor care what the status of her other relationship is. Indeed, he should not even care if she sees other guys than him who are not her long-distance boyfriend.

Let him date her for a few months, hopefully plant the flag, and then both she and him will move on with their lives, the end.

ZachF wrote:The girl is fair game but he should be a gentleman and insist she end it with the other guy, assuming the interest is mutual.

Agreed. Some of you are like a starving pack of Pitbulls. Go eat a sandwich.

If true (probably isn't) the kid seems like a budding player, but it's pathetic he's asking his mom for advice. He should be talking to male friends or brothers, or at worst, his dad.

Still, if she ain't married, she ain't taken.

Anonymous wrote:OP - you are a loser as a mother.

Yup. Wow.

I don't think any girl wants to date your loser son OP. Just tell him that and the rest will work itself out.

The hottest bimbo in my high school dated a super rich chubby dork and then married him at 25. Of course at college and the year after in NYC she cheated on him 100s of times. Tell your son to spit good game at the next party and close the deal.

Get her to break up first? Lol. That sounds clingy as hell.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A girl is not an object to be stolen from her boyfriend, who is not her owner.

Please do not encourage your son to think of women as property.

+1,000,000

+2,000,000

This is how date rapists are created. Parents teaching their kids that they're entitled to whatever/whomever they want, that women don't know what's best for them, that they are prizes to be collected. What a gross post, OP.

Maybe you should take him to the woman's march.

The girl is fair game but he should be a gentleman and insist she end it with the other guy, assuming the interest is mutual.

Anonymous wrote:Please be a troll. I'd hate to think there are such unethical moms out there advising theirs sons to do stupid mean crap.

And why this prurient interest in their children relationships.

Anonymous wrote:A girl is not an object to be stolen from her boyfriend, who is not her owner.

Please do not encourage your son to think of women as property.

+1,000,000

What a despicable mother for even asking this. Do you have no decency yourself? Do you not understand that women are neither property to be owned nor prizes to be won? WTF is wrong with you? Congrats on raising the next Brock Turner. You should be incredibly proud of yourself.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was your son not taught basic morals? Why would he want to be with a girl who would leave her current boyfriend for another guy? Tell him to move on.

LOL you gotta be kidding. This girl is not married or even engaged. If he gets into her pants, that is a WIN. He's not going to be with her more than a few months anyway. Good experience for him.

Yeah, because his mom should be encouraging that type of shit. Gross.

If dad isn't encouraging it, then mom should.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was your son not taught basic morals? Why would he want to be with a girl who would leave her current boyfriend for another guy? Tell him to move on.

LOL you gotta be kidding. This girl is not married or even engaged. If he gets into her pants, that is a WIN. He's not going to be with her more than a few months anyway. Good experience for him.

Yeah, because his mom should be encouraging that type of shit. Gross.