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Anonymous

07/24/2024 07:57 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

gay teen boys piercing any where on theIr body - NOTHING WRONG Rob

Anonymous

07/08/2018 17:51 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

I dont recommend gaying until 18 years of age

Anonymous

07/08/2018 17:30 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

I teach MS. Lots of teens are out these days. More will come out in HS and college, but an out MS is not that shocking these days.

Most black and Latino boys I teach have a pierced ear. I don’t even associate it with being gay.

Anonymous

07/08/2018 15:36 Subject: Re:Gay teen boy and ear piercing

Anonymous wrote:Hell no. If he wanted to wear a bra and thong, would you let him?

Sure.

Anonymous

07/08/2018 14:56 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

Anonymous wrote:Yes ear piercings are normal these days

Thanks for reviving a thread over a year old.

Anonymous

07/08/2018 14:51 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

Isn't it pretty mainstream now?

Anonymous

07/08/2018 14:49 Subject: Re:Gay teen boy and ear piercing

Hell no. If he wanted to wear a bra and thong, would you let him?

Anonymous

07/08/2018 14:42 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I also think it's a problem to have gender-based double standards in most cases, so if I would allow something for one kid I would not deny the other permission based only or primarily on their gender.

Not to derail this thread, but just curious, do you extend that thinking to attire?

Yes. We always have, but especially for teens, who are certainly old enough in my opinion to decide what to wear. Along the same lines, I personally oppose the legal double standard of who is allowed to go topless in public.

I've always avoided a gender double standard. When DD got her ears pierced, DS wanted to as well, so I let him. He's not gay- not that it matters.

Anonymous

07/08/2018 14:29 Subject: Gay teen boy and ear piercing

Yes ear piercings are normal these days