Umm she be crazy. Stay away. You can't fix this and you will end up in more troublle with her.

Ghost her.

I would definitely discontinue this friendship.

I mean you are this new to each other yet already she is causing drama.....???!!

Huge red flag.

He hacked her email - that's why he has it and could show it to her.

He probably sent it to himself and said it was from you. I'd let her know via email everything you want to say to her and then let it go.

Back away slowly.

She sounds psycho.

I Had a friend of many years accusing me of spreading gossip about her. I told her I will not engage in high school drama and the friendship died. Some things are not mean to to be.

Anonymous wrote:If any of my friends made a reference to email proxy I'd cease talking to them. That's stalkerish and loony.

what does this even mean? I have no idea what a proxy is and whether that's something that should creep me out or not.

Anonymous wrote:E-mail her DH. Tell him that "the hawk flies at midnight." Report back here with what happened next.

OP, she sounds cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs. Stop communicating with her.

Did you?

Anonymous wrote:

But is this something you can recover from? Should I even try to reach out to her and reiterate once again that- no, I never emailed him?

No. Say nothing. If she contacts you again tell her that you didn't email her husband, and since she doesn't believe you, that you do not want to know any information about her life, to protect yourself from this type of drama.

If any of my friends made a reference to email proxy I'd cease talking to them. That's stalkerish and loony.

You seriously need to never contact her again. Ever. This is the type of person who will do crazy things, like call the cops and get you arrested for something you didn't do. Save her crazy emails, texts and messages for a while in case you need them . Never respond.

E-mail her DH. Tell him that "the hawk flies at midnight." Report back here with what happened next.