Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Go to bed with him. Then have sex. I go to bed early myself. My fiancé will come lay down with me and one thing leads to another. It isn't rocket science.

It's very obvious DH doesn't want me to go to bed with him or have sex. He says over and over how tired he is. Works it into conversation all night. Ok, I get it. You're super tired and we're not having sex. Got it.

Same situation and turned out DH was having an affair.

We also had the same thing with the "I'm sooooo tired" comments and mine was also cheating.

Op - it's easy to find fault. Stop looking for it.

I always go to bed first. I get up early, and go to sleep early.

Being tired does not mean he does not want sex. What I am seeing is you are focusing on your work. He does not want to read/watch TV/etc, and is feeling ignored.