Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 12:47     Subject: I cannot remember the last time my husband bought something for me.

Anonymous wrote:I would be pissed if my husband kept spending money on things he guessed I would like. I would much prefer we discuss them before my money is spent.

Yes. I buy things for myself for X-Mas and birthday and make it clear to him. I'd feel more guilty about my purchases if he bought stuff for me, too.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 12:28     Subject: I cannot remember the last time my husband bought something for me.

When was the last time you gave him a blow job?
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 12:25     Subject: I cannot remember the last time my husband bought something for me.

DH and I don't buy each other's gifts. There is no point, because we're both pretty particular. After almost 15 years together, I still no nothing about tennis rackets strings, and he is clueless about knitting gadgets. I guess it's not the cornerstone of our marriage.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 12:07     Subject: I cannot remember the last time my husband bought something for me.

OP, stop buying gifts for him; he clearly doesn't care and gifts are not his love language.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2016 19:17     Subject: Re:I cannot remember the last time my husband bought something for me.

Anonymous wrote:My husband told me yesterday he thought about me all day riding around. He said if he didn't have projects and people to meet he would love it if I went riding with him. No amount of money or anything tops that.

30 plus years together.

He also knows I keep lists on my favorites bar. Last year he bought everything I had on my list. It was so freaking fantastic !


Wow, this is so helpful! Please, tell us more!
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2016 17:49     Subject: Re:I cannot remember the last time my husband bought something for me.

My husband told me yesterday he thought about me all day riding around. He said if he didn't have projects and people to meet he would love it if I went riding with him. No amount of money or anything tops that.

30 plus years together.

He also knows I keep lists on my favorites bar. Last year he bought everything I had on my list. It was so freaking fantastic !