Anonymous
Post 11/14/2016 05:36     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Years ago when I spent time caring we would make the bulk of ours say Merry Christmas. I would think about the few families that don't celebrate Christmas and make a couple extra at Walmart that said something generic. You can order inexpensively and there is no minimum.

Then life got busy and I figured everyone sees the kids on FB so only immediate family get cards these days. Digital to everyone else.
Anonymous
Post 11/14/2016 05:08     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Why not buy packets of cards (different ones for your different groups) and put in a photo. I like the cards with designs that stand up on their own rather than printed cards that the sender hasn't written a personal greeting.
Anonymous
Post 11/14/2016 04:11     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Anonymous wrote:Who actually TELLS YOU they dislike your Christmas card?
That's ridiculous and rude.


Anyone who can't accept my "happy holidays" can shove 'em up their a*@.



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PP: You are making baby Jesus cry with your language. No toys for you -- and you know you need them in the bedroom.
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 23:28     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Christmas card" and 'quandry' should never be used in the same sentence.
If this is that much of an issue time to send nothing and conveniently 'forget' to do cards this year because you're busy. Then never send them again! You're free!


And mostly because it's spelled "quandary" no "quandry"


It's called a typo.
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 19:38     Subject: Christmas card quandry

I use the same picture, but two different cars. One that says Mery Christmas for our Christian friends and one that says happy new year or something not religious for our Jewish/Muslim/not religious friends.
doodlebug
Post 11/13/2016 19:32     Subject: Christmas card quandry

I ordered some that said Be Merry and they're gray with some red, white and green but mostly gray I think. They have 4 pictures so the actual preprinted portion is minimal. I think Be Merry is a decent compromise IMO.
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 19:21     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Anonymous wrote:"Christmas card" and 'quandry' should never be used in the same sentence.
If this is that much of an issue time to send nothing and conveniently 'forget' to do cards this year because you're busy. Then never send them again! You're free!


And mostly because it's spelled "quandary" no "quandry"
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 19:18     Subject: Christmas card quandry

"Christmas card" and 'quandry' should never be used in the same sentence.
If this is that much of an issue time to send nothing and conveniently 'forget' to do cards this year because you're busy. Then never send them again! You're free!
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 19:11     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:To the devout Catholics do a handwritten note - Thinking of you on Jesus's Birthday. Merry Christmas.

But then you make sure to add ("or at least what Constantine and Julius deemed to be his birthday to coincide with Winter Solstice and Saturnalia to get the pagans on board!")


How do I join your Christmas card list?
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 18:42     Subject: Christmas card quandry

General printed message that can be interpreted to have religious meaning (joy, peace, etc) and your written note to the religious folks says something referencing the religious aspect.

Who gets snippy over a Christmas card? Not very much in the Christian spirit!
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 18:41     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Anonymous wrote:Happy Hokidays, Seasons Greetings or Peace are perfectly fine.

Who gets snippy if your card isn't explicitly religious?


My favorite.
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 18:35     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 18:21     Subject: Christmas card quandry

Happy Hokidays, Seasons Greetings or Peace are perfectly fine.

Who gets snippy if your card isn't explicitly religious?
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 18:09     Subject: Re:Christmas card quandry

I usually order two versions, a "Merry Christmas" and a "Peace on Earth." The former go to those I know for sure celebrate the holiday, the latter go to everyone else. If anyone had problems with "Peace on Earth," then THEY are the problem!
Anonymous
Post 11/13/2016 18:04     Subject: Re:Christmas card quandry

Anonymous wrote:Big glass of wine and then select whatever message fits best for you and your family. If someone complains, say "I'm sorry you feel that way. I sincerely only meant to send our family's love to you." Don't look back. Life is too short for this bs.


This is perfect. I'm religious but uncomfortable with in your face expressions of religion. We usually do one that says Happy Holidays, Joy, etc. I get cards all over the map- some extremely religious and some 100% secular. I've never cared either way, I love getting Christmas or holiday or New Year cards!