Wife bought new phone, she was transferring still DD from her old one but didn't complete it. I remember her stressing that all her messages and photos wouldn't move over - ironically she never asked me to help.

Her old one was out and plugged in and an alarm kept going off. I was like a message ring or a little tune. It was annoying so I picked it up and found the txt messages. Photos she sent him, messages saying how she used to do stuff to avoid having sex and the tactics she used, how she dislike me. I knew we had some rough times but things were improving, so I thought. Painful to read. I guess since it was attached to WiFi it just downloaded them or synced or something. They were older ones and I knew there were newer ones but she wouldn't let me see them or said they weren't there. Pretty damaging to the ego.

Anonymous wrote:My DH got suspicious when he noticed my best lingerie missing for a business trip. Two days later he saw an incriminating email. I was in a terrible place internally. My life was so dark and my marriage was so lonely and lifeless. I have so much guilt and shame. My DH has stayed with me and kept our family together and I will always be grateful for that. We are in a better place now. Not great but better and working on it every day. I learned so much

Your husband is a cuck..I would have dropped your silly ass and told the kids why.

DH changed from mailed cell phone bill to electronic. But when you do that, Verizon sends a letter to the house confirming your recent transaction. So I found a way to get online and saw he'd been talking to her all day on his cell - except for an hour or so at lunch time. Because they were having lunch together.

She got fired, she worked in a call center, I think they heard the calls/could see the amount.

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Anonymous wrote:My friend found out when she looked through her husbands phone and found a pic of a piece of toast he was eating. He had deleted everything else but when she saw the toast she knew. Not only did she know he was having an affair but she knew he was in deep. You don't send pics of your breakfast to just anyone, you send it to someone you love that you miss, that you wish you were eating with right then and there.

This is really something.

This is hysterical. I'm trying to imagine my husbands reaction if I accused him of infidelity over toast.

"Admit it! You love her! You never send me pictures of toast, never did!"

Anonymous wrote:This is easy, i told my partner. I wanted to break free from the hold he had on me.

The hold your partner had or the other guy?

This is easy, i told my partner. I wanted to break free from the hold he had on me.

Anonymous wrote:oWs texts accidentally went to my wife's iPad.

Same. Thanks cloud

I would not have deduced this. I am so unimaginative.

Anonymous wrote:My friend found out when she looked through her husbands phone and found a pic of a piece of toast he was eating. He had deleted everything else but when she saw the toast she knew. Not only did she know he was having an affair but she knew he was in deep. You don't send pics of your breakfast to just anyone, you send it to someone you love that you miss, that you wish you were eating with right then and there.

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Anonymous wrote:The toast thing is fake and a reference to something but I can't remember what

No it's not fake it happened to my friend back in February of this year. She texted me the pic of the toast as. Soon as she found it

I can't imagine thinking that a piece of toast picture means someone loves someone else.

Anonymous wrote:The toast thing is fake and a reference to something but I can't remember what

No it's not fake it happened to my friend back in February of this year. She texted me the pic of the toast as. Soon as she found it

The toast thing is fake and a reference to something but I can't remember what

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Anonymous wrote:My friend found out when she looked through her husbands phone and found a pic of a piece of toast he was eating. He had deleted everything else but when she saw the toast she knew. Not only did she know he was having an affair but she knew he was in deep. You don't send pics of your breakfast to just anyone, you send it to someone you love that you miss, that you wish you were eating with right then and there.

This is really something.

It is something that an OW 1. wrote the post in the voice of a "friend" 2. thinks the AP loved her because he sent her a picture of a piece of toast.

Anonymous wrote:My friend found out when she looked through her husbands phone and found a pic of a piece of toast he was eating. He had deleted everything else but when she saw the toast she knew. Not only did she know he was having an affair but she knew he was in deep. You don't send pics of your breakfast to just anyone, you send it to someone you love that you miss, that you wish you were eating with right then and there.

This is really something.

DW found my condom stash. DW and I don't use condoms.

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Anonymous wrote:oWs texts accidentally went to my wife's iPad.

Aye. That had to be a rough day. (Well deserved though.)

It was a rough 2 years. Getting caught is no joke.