Anonymous
11/03/2016 20:50
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:Not to scare you, but some young women are crazy. Crazy.
If she goes to HR, you are screwed. Screwed.
She could tell your wife or blackmail you.
She might be using you as a prop in drama with her boyfriend.
Or maybe she's just a slut.
You've shown your true colors: you aren't a good guy.
If you can't keep it in your pants out of respect for your wife and family, then perhaps fear of losing your job, getting your ass whipped by her boyfriend, or losing your family might keep you on the right track.
I love this response. Get some individual therapy and ghost the co-worker.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 18:00
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:OP is using DCUM as his interactive erotica.
This.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 17:55
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Not to scare you, but some young women are crazy. Crazy.
If she goes to HR, you are screwed. Screwed.
She could tell your wife or blackmail you.
She might be using you as a prop in drama with her boyfriend.
Or maybe she's just a slut.
You've shown your true colors: you aren't a good guy.
If you can't keep it in your pants out of respect for your wife and family, then perhaps fear of losing your job, getting your ass whipped by her boyfriend, or losing your family might keep you on the right track.
If she goes to HR, you are screwed. Screwed.
She could tell your wife or blackmail you.
She might be using you as a prop in drama with her boyfriend.
Or maybe she's just a slut.
You've shown your true colors: you aren't a good guy.
If you can't keep it in your pants out of respect for your wife and family, then perhaps fear of losing your job, getting your ass whipped by her boyfriend, or losing your family might keep you on the right track.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 17:42
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
You should worry more that she tells her boyfriend out of guilt and he's a jerk and try to ruin your life. Say nothing and deny everything unless there is proof of guilt.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 17:38
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell my spouse if you think that it is truly over and you regret the kiss. I know I'll probably get flamed for that. But one kiss is not worth poisoning a marriage forever if you believe in your heart of hearts it was a one-off.
Also, I would distance yourself from co-worker as much as possible. Delete her number, skip work happy hours, etc.
Agree.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 17:13
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
MikeL wrote:Anonymous wrote:the two you could be soulmates
Yep, only one way to find out.
+1. It wouldn't have happened if there weren't a deep reason. Soulmates. Only way to find out is to let your heart open to the possibility.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 17:00
Subject: Re:I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:Don't tell. Don't tell. Don't tell. But don't do it again. Change jobs if you need to. Do some individual therapy to figure out what is going on.
AND NEVER EVER TELL.
Unless you get caught, and then be brutally honest.
+1 No good from telling. Work on yourself and stay the course. Good luck!
Anonymous
11/03/2016 16:45
Subject: Re:I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:Don't tell. Don't tell. Don't tell. But don't do it again. Change jobs if you need to. Do some individual therapy to figure out what is going on.
AND NEVER EVER TELL.
Unless you get caught, and then be brutally honest.
+1
Anonymous
11/03/2016 16:40
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
No more emails. No more lunches. No more flirting. No more group happy hours.
Consider personal counseling so you can tell a therapist and talk about why you did this now, what is going on in your marriage and how you can make your marriage better.
I wouldn't tell. But nor would I lie.
Consider personal counseling so you can tell a therapist and talk about why you did this now, what is going on in your marriage and how you can make your marriage better.
I wouldn't tell. But nor would I lie.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 16:34
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:What kind of male uses the word "fabulous?"
Katy Perry -- and she liked it?
MikeL
11/03/2016 16:34
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Anonymous wrote:the two you could be soulmates
Yep, only one way to find out.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 16:29
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
the two you could be soulmates
Anonymous
11/03/2016 16:23
Subject: Re:I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
First, you're an idiot for doing all the flirting crap let alone the 20 minute session. If in any way this co-worker reports to you, you could be in deep grease regarding sexual harassment given the texts etc. You need to fully assess what the possible risks are given what you have done. You'd better make sure that this is a one and done and that there will be no blow back. If there is and you haven't told your wife whatever hole you have dug will only be that much deeper.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 15:56
Subject: Re:I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
Don't tell. Don't tell. Don't tell. But don't do it again. Change jobs if you need to. Do some individual therapy to figure out what is going on.
AND NEVER EVER TELL.
Unless you get caught, and then be brutally honest.
AND NEVER EVER TELL.
Unless you get caught, and then be brutally honest.
Anonymous
11/03/2016 14:35
Subject: I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.
OP is using DCUM as his interactive erotica.