Anonymous wrote:This is why you wait until they've made partner to marry them.

This made me laugh. Signed, DW who made it in big law with a DH who quit to "find himself". Great dad and husband though. Still love him.

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Anonymous wrote:My bet is that you are a fat slob who has put on 30+ pounds since you were married and can't stand to look in a mirror. Instead of focusing on yourself, you blame your crappy life on DH. You will find lots of support here from fellow cows.

+1

You are so right, we all immediately sided with OP. Great eyesight!

Anonymous wrote:My bet is that you are a fat slob who has put on 30+ pounds since you were married and can't stand to look in a mirror. Instead of focusing on yourself, you blame your crappy life on DH. You will find lots of support here from fellow cows.

+1

My bet is that you are a fat slob who has put on 30+ pounds since you were married and can't stand to look in a mirror. Instead of focusing on yourself, you blame your crappy life on DH. You will find lots of support here from fellow cows.

I wonder if you have discussed your feelings with him directly. How about seeking the help of a marriage counselor? Hope Restored does a wonderful job assisting husbands and wives who’ve gone through the intensives and found them extremely helpful and highly successful.