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Anonymous wrote:DH here: yes, here. Some men find that hot, actually.

Are you turned on by the thought of a baby being there while you have sex or by the thought that another man ejaculated there before you arrived?

I am seriously trying to understand.

Certainly not the former. Gross. A touch of the latter, but really it is more that the physical appearance can be attractive in its own right. Appealing in a different way. Its certainly all bound up in ideas of fertility and sexuality.

I appreciate your candor even if I find it gross. I get that a pregnant body can be sexy, but it sounds like you also have some latent homosexuality/cuckhold issues in play here.

Sounds like projection?

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, guys are definitely turned on by preggo women; no shame at all even if DH is nearby. I attribute it to some sort of a weird "she puts out" thing.

True. A lot of times when I see a pregnant woman, I like to imagine how she got that way.

I wouldn't. I certainly did with my DW, but there is no way I would if I were single again (God forbid), unless the baby was mine of course. Not a "turn-on/turn-off" issue, but a question of why would I be with a woman who was pregnant by another man. Plenty of non-pregnant fish in the sea.

Yeah, guys are definitely turned on by preggo women; no shame at all even if DH is nearby. I attribute it to some sort of a weird "she puts out" thing.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here: yes, here. Some men find that hot, actually.

Are you turned on by the thought of a baby being there while you have sex or by the thought that another man ejaculated there before you arrived?

I am seriously trying to understand.

Certainly not the former. Gross. A touch of the latter, but really it is more that the physical appearance can be attractive in its own right. Appealing in a different way. Its certainly all bound up in ideas of fertility and sexuality.

I appreciate your candor even if I find it gross. I get that a pregnant body can be sexy, but it sounds like you also have some latent homosexuality/cuckhold issues in play here.

Hahahahahahahaha hilarious. DCUM never change.


I would say the opposite... seems pretty hetero/100% straight to be turned on by a pregnant women. I would imagine most gay men would be the ones grossed out by it

Absolutely. Pregnant woman have turned my head many times. Yesterday I was behind one in line and she turned around was easily one of the five most attractive woman I have ever seen in my life.

Anonymous wrote:As a pregnant woman who is currently dating, I can tell you there is definitely no shortage of men who would do this. Some fetishize it, many just find the fuller curves very sexy. For a lot it is certainly tied into notions of fertility and sexuality.

Plus pregnancy can send hormones into overdrive, which is, of course, appealing to men who enjoy women who are enthusiastic about sex and multiorgasmic.

I love pregnant women, for all of the above reasons, and even a few more!

Yes.

I can't believe there are "no's" out there.

I thought all men were like me, love sex, love women, all shapes and sizes.

I saw some documentary about this and I believe it's more of a challenge or top dog situation that men find appealing. The woman is clearly pregnant with someone's else sperm so one would think that any other man wouldn't be able to have sex with her since she is "taken". It's the challenge aspect that men find sexy.

This documentary went on to show that studies revealed men's sperm swim faster and harder if he is out of twin for a few days or a week and the thought of his woman was with someone else. It's intinctual for the men to be top dog.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here: yes, here. Some men find that hot, actually.

Are you turned on by the thought of a baby being there while you have sex or by the thought that another man ejaculated there before you arrived?

I am seriously trying to understand.

Certainly not the former. Gross. A touch of the latter, but really it is more that the physical appearance can be attractive in its own right. Appealing in a different way. Its certainly all bound up in ideas of fertility and sexuality.

I appreciate your candor even if I find it gross. I get that a pregnant body can be sexy, but it sounds like you also have some latent homosexuality/cuckhold issues in play here.

I'm not quite seeing the homosexual angle, it seems to me that finding a woman's fertility attractive is about as hetero as it gets. As for cuckoldry, I've always thought about that as principally being about getting off on betrayal/humiliation, which is really not my thing.

She was just trying to be a bully troll.

I was on a break with my AP when I got pregnant by my husband. We got in touch while I was pregnant and he invited me over (before he knew I was pregnant) but once I told him I was pregnant he didn't push it and I wasn't into it either. Even if he wanted to I couldn't go through with it. There's just a huge ick factor for me because he's not the father. Plus I was worried about STDs.

Two sure things about hitting on a expectant woman-you know she is not a virgin and you can't get her pregnant.

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Anonymous wrote:As a pregnant woman who is currently dating, I can tell you there is definitely no shortage of men who would do this. Some fetishize it, many just find the fuller curves very sexy. For a lot it is certainly tied into notions of fertility and sexuality.

Plus pregnancy can send hormones into overdrive, which is, of course, appealing to men who enjoy women who are enthusiastic about sex and multiorgasmic.

Are you worried at all about STDs at this particularly sensitive time? For instance, Herpes can be contracted even with condom use and an outbreak while pregnant could affect your delivery options.

No more worried than I would be otherwise, but then I'm pretty neurotic about that in general. I'm dating, not having loads of random sex. I'm just pointing out that the interest is definitely there. I don't think I've ever felt more beautiful and happy with my body and I think men can tell and find that attractive.

Of course there are the out and out sickos as well, but they never quite disappear do they.

Sure. Bigger boobs, and I know I'm not going to get her pregnant.

Anonymous wrote:My AP did.

My AP did too he stayed with me and made love to me right up to my delivery. As I grew I expected him to say goodbye but he loved me and my body. We continued the affair after the baby too