Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 23:07     Subject: Re:So where do the lonely go????
Risky007
Post 10/16/2016 23:06     Subject: Re:So where do the lonely go????
What are your interests? What kind of hobbies do you have?
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 22:33     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
DCUM is not the place for understanding or advice on this OP.. here if you deviate from their one style or personality or if you ever confront human or metaphysical issues that might question the closely held conformist values... then you must be 'deranged' or 'dramatic'.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 20:19     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I just spent a week out west. I met some of the nicest locals. So as soon as my youngest is off to college I'm moving. It is not YOU. It is this area.


Spot on answer.


But even on the west coast people who are in a group are generally taken aback if someone approaches and starts talking.

Did you have friends when your children lived at home? Where are they now?
Cultivating friendship is hard, you don't need many, just one or two good ones.
And what does that DCUM poster say...envy steals the joy of life...


I was out west and not on the west coast. Think Colorado and Arizona.


And this points to the problem! The assumption that there is NOTHING between the coast. The Empty Zone of Deplorables!
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 20:10     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I just spent a week out west. I met some of the nicest locals. So as soon as my youngest is off to college I'm moving. It is not YOU. It is this area.


Spot on answer.



+ 1. DC is not a nice place to be
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 18:24     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So you're into skipping lines when you right and waxing poetic and disjointed. You want to talk to a personable man.

You're coming across as really weird, OP. And that's online, not even in person!

So maybe put down the drink first.


Hmm. So many years and I still am clueless. Somehow you can figure out why I am wierd from a couple postings. Thanks ?

I will say it seems ok. It really does not matter. Today is a beautiful sun and sky. Ah yeahh life goes on long after the thrill of life is gone. Pretty good singer.

But f'ck You I still feel different and out of place and not sure how to change that



You don't need to change it. Just find like minded people who are into same stuff you are. Meet ups, Facebook groups? Neighborhood book club, reading club. Maybe the library has some sort of book event etc. good luck.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 17:50     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I just spent a week out west. I met some of the nicest locals. So as soon as my youngest is off to college I'm moving. It is not YOU. It is this area.


Spot on answer.


But even on the west coast people who are in a group are generally taken aback if someone approaches and starts talking.

Did you have friends when your children lived at home? Where are they now?
Cultivating friendship is hard, you don't need many, just one or two good ones.
And what does that DCUM poster say...envy steals the joy of life...


I was out west and not on the west coast. Think Colorado and Arizona.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 17:46     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So you're into skipping lines when you right and waxing poetic and disjointed. You want to talk to a personable man.

You're coming across as really weird, OP. And that's online, not even in person!

So maybe put down the drink first.


Hmm. So many years and I still am clueless. Somehow you can figure out why I am wierd from a couple postings. Thanks ?

I will say it seems ok. It really does not matter. Today is a beautiful sun and sky. Ah yeahh life goes on long after the thrill of life is gone. Pretty good singer.

But f'ck You I still feel different and out of place and not sure how to change that



My my lyrical mind says you just references three different sings in your post. I dig your style. Maybe I'm weird too, OP.

Now a little ditty about Jack and Diane...
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 17:34     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Lol well no trouble seeing why OP is having difficulty fitting in.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 17:21     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Anonymous wrote:So you're into skipping lines when you right and waxing poetic and disjointed. You want to talk to a personable man.

You're coming across as really weird, OP. And that's online, not even in person!

So maybe put down the drink first.


Hmm. So many years and I still am clueless. Somehow you can figure out why I am wierd from a couple postings. Thanks ?

I will say it seems ok. It really does not matter. Today is a beautiful sun and sky. Ah yeahh life goes on long after the thrill of life is gone. Pretty good singer.

But f'ck You I still feel different and out of place and not sure how to change that

Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 17:00     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
So you're into skipping lines when you right and waxing poetic and disjointed. You want to talk to a personable man.

You're coming across as really weird, OP. And that's online, not even in person!

So maybe put down the drink first.
Anonymous
Post 10/16/2016 16:59     Subject: So where do the lonely go????
Take most of your clothes off and dance around and laugh. That always makes me friends.