Anonymous wrote:The "jessa from hbo's girls" as one poster in another forum put it. Where do they hang out in DC? I'm sick of biglaw harpies. I just want to hang out with a super chill and cute hippie type. You know - have names likes willow or dakota, are always in distressed jeans, and a band tour t-shirt, wear choker necklaces, have long natural hair, maybe a nose piercing, maybe work a couple of odd jobs like at a gallery and a coffee shop, drive super old cars, always have great weed or know where to find it at a moments notice, like to garden and go hiking.

Please guide me.

Visit a college campus. The girls there are probably at your maturity level as well.

Anonymous wrote:Yoga class

+1 yoga district

That would be me if I wasn't so stressed trying to make ends meet or dealing with endless crap. I probably should have moved to LA years ago. If I ever have enough money for a vacation, that will be the first place I go and I'll probably never come back.

Sorry, dude, already married. My husband met me through one of his big law harpie friends.

Wonderland ballroom

I think I'm some of what you've listed---several part-time quirky jobs, tattoos, happiest outside in the sun, tend to wear old band tshirts and florals, into composting and the enviroment.

Honestly, as a now-married woman who had tons of suitors---what do you bring to the table? Are you a quirky outdoorsy indie type too or are you looking for someone who will be the most interesting thing about you? A lot of guys who approached me were the second type, they're pretty easy to see through. Take inventory of yourself, though. Too many people look to complete themselves with other people instead of being happy with their own selves.

Anonymous wrote:Find out when/where the good jam bands are playing and hang out there.

+1, I am similar to the girl you describe and I have discovered that I am kind of rare, but they are out there ....Widespread Panic was just in town at the Warner Theater and you can bet I was there for both shows and it was packed w/ these kinds of folks (my tribe, haha). I am going to assume a few of them lived in DC too! If you don't mind me asking, what is your age?

Anonymous wrote:Go further out in the suburbs.

Yes, then he'll find capri pants wearing Trump supporters with helmet hair.

Good answer.

Go further out in the suburbs.

Go to Crafty Bastards craft fair next weekend at Union Market. The ones who are here in DC will be there. Google it.

You're asking DCUM???

Bloomingdale and Shaw.

Downtown Frederick

Oh yeah, you are in the wrong town. I live in California now and these types are abundant. Unfortunately, I am not one of them and I long to get back to the East Coast.

Find out when/where the good jam bands are playing and hang out there.