Anonymous wrote:OP here. Came back to look for info for a friend going through IVF.
I did four rounds of retrievals, got over 60 eggs, and not a single good embryo.
Used a DE and had a healthy kiddo at 43. I wish I’d gone right to DE, or at least done that after 2 retrievals. I put my body and mind through so much unnecessary trauma.
We have two amazing and healthy kids. I am deeply grateful to the donor and am 99% ok with it most of the time. There’s still a pant of wishing they were related to me genetically, but most days, I’m too busy being smothered in kisses or playing imaginary games to fret.
Congratulations, OP! I'm so happy you had a positive experience with DE and are now a mom to two healthy children. It's hard to make that leap to DE - so glad you found success. Thank you for checking back in!