Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 12:10     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
Only person I post about is MIL who doesn't do much online and doesn't live around here. I do fear that local friends will recognize my horror stories though, since of course none of us admit to reading DCUM.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 08:55     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
Anonymous wrote:I assume most people tweak the facts like I do.

For example, if you are bitching about your son's third grade teacher who did X, you post about your (fake) daughter's fourth grade teacher who did Y.



Yes, of course.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 08:51     Subject: Re:How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
ThatBetch wrote:Don't know, don't care. Then again, if I'm posting about it here I've either said it to your face already, or would (if I decided I cared enough), and you already know how That Betch feels about you.


That Betch's feelings are neither valid nor relevant
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 08:50     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I posted about an office crush. If a single guy in his 30s who doesn't live in dc reads DCUM, I won't have a crush on him anymore.

For other stuff, I change minor details.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 08:46     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't, and that's why:

1. I try to keep things more about my reaction than the other person's actions and

2. why I am glad DCUM is anonymous!


Not.


How is it not anonymous?


Jeff Steele knows everything
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 08:18     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I hope my ex AP reads Dcum - I still want to connect.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 08:14     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't, and that's why:

1. I try to keep things more about my reaction than the other person's actions and

2. why I am glad DCUM is anonymous!


Not.


How is it not anonymous?
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 07:46     Subject: Re:How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I change small details just to be safe. I might change the age of my kids by a year or their gender. Or my specific location.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 07:40     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I've seen a few friends on here I recognize. Usually it's NBD because they are nice and asking harmless questions.

If they bitch about me, I'm not aware.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 07:37     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I typically don't post about other people so this is not a problem.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 05:31     Subject: How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I always change a few details w/out compromising the integrity of my story just in case.

Any and everyone probably does the same thing w/out having to worry that what they share will get lost in translation.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2016 01:52     Subject: Re:How do you know the person you are posting about does not read DCUM?
I will change certain details. I might have said Brazil if it was really Croatia or change the procedure if it wasn't relevant. If someone is complaining about a bad face lift or nose job or boob job, it doesn't matter. The annoyance factor is the same. If you are sick of hearing about it, you are sick of hearing about it.