I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. Wish I could give you a hug right now. I just said a prayer for you and your husband and I hope that God will provide the wisdom and help you need at this time. Do you think it would help you and your hubby to speak with a counselor? It might be worth trying. Hope everything goes well with you. Hugs!

Anonymous wrote:Do the 180 and quick. Even if he isn't having an affair it will shock the shlt or of him.

I was going to write the same thing. Look up the 180.

Don't decide now whether or not to get back together if he comes back to you after sleeping with another women while separated now. Just take things one step at a time.

My friend was cheating on his wife. (This was 5 years into marriage and pre kids) They separated and he got a girlfriend ( not the AP). His wife did the 180 (although I'm sure she had no idea that's what she was doing). My friend and wife were both going to individual therapy. And after 9 months started couples therapy (while he had a girlfriend). At the year mark, my friend realized he wanted back with the wife and she forgave him and took him back. They just had their 25th wedding anniversary and are very happy.

Do the 180 and quick. Even if he isn't having an affair it will shock the shlt or of him.

Well personally if a man told me he wanted out, then I would accept my marriage is toast.

Life is too short to want to be with someone who doesn't want you.

He might be in the midst of an affair already. How long have you been married?