Anonymous
08/22/2016 14:04
Subject: Was breaking up from your first relationship post divorce painful?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It's going to be painful because unlike my 15yr long marriage, the intensity hasn't fizzled out yet. My exDH will forever be part of my life because we have kids together. This guy won't and it hurts even if it is for the best.
Exactly this. My marriage was long over and the end was just a formality. No tears were shed, no pain - it was more like we looked forward to moving on with our lives. Not everyone is devastated by a divorce or has pain and baggage.
ThatBetch
08/21/2016 21:08
Subject: Re:Was breaking up from your first relationship post divorce painful?
I've made this my post-divorce code: http://notsalmon.com/2016/08/21/how-to-avoid-rebound-relationships/