Anonymous wrote:"Did you stop having sex witb DW because she became overweight/old"

I can't actually stop having sex, because I am a normal man with a normal sex drive for whom "sexless" is not a viable option.

And I am not the least bit turned off by a woman's natural aging process: my attraction is strongest to sexy women my age.

BUT.... there is no bloody excuse for her significant weight gain. TOTAL BONER KILLER!
If I had any other morally legit options for sex, it would not be with my overweight wife.

Yes, you are obviously a paragon of morality.

Do you honestly believe your wife would want to have sex with you if she knew how you felt about her? If you're going to be a dick, just own it and get yourself something on the side.

Anonymous wrote:"Did you stop having sex witb DW because she became overweight/old"

I can't actually stop having sex, because I am a normal man with a normal sex drive for whom "sexless" is not a viable option.

And I am not the least bit turned off by a woman's natural aging process: my attraction is strongest to sexy women my age.

BUT.... there is no bloody excuse for her significant weight gain. TOTAL BONER KILLER!
If I had any other morally legit options for sex, it would not be with my overweight wife.

How overweight is she?

Problem is more when I'm fat than when wife is.

Anonymous wrote:Did I stop having sex with my wife because she became overweight/old? Technically, I guess I started having a lot less sex with my wife because of these things -- but it had nothing to do with my preference or desire for her.

Age and/or weight killed her desire to have sex with me. Her body image issues have snuffed her libido. And it doesn't matter how often I tell her how hot I she think she is ("I'm married to her, I have to say that" she says) or how many erections she gives me.

I second PP's thoughts about preferring a sexually enthusiastic wife who is heavier to a sexually cold wife of any weight.

+ a billion -- a guy whose wife doesn't want sec at night, or in the morning, or ....

My 43 year old wife jokes that she is a horny old woman. No complaints here.

Did I stop having sex with my wife because she became overweight/old? Technically, I guess I started having a lot less sex with my wife because of these things -- but it had nothing to do with my preference or desire for her.

Age and/or weight killed her desire to have sex with me. Her body image issues have snuffed her libido. And it doesn't matter how often I tell her how hot I she think she is ("I'm married to her, I have to say that" she says) or how many erections she gives me.

I second PP's thoughts about preferring a sexually enthusiastic wife who is heavier to a sexually cold wife of any weight.

No. My 5'9" wife has gone from 140 to 170 in 20 years. I still wanted to have sex with her when she tipped the scales at 200 and pregnant. I get a bone when she brushes up against me. I know it actually annoys her that I'm so easily turned on by her. I think about sex all the time.

Anonymous wrote:I stopped because I saw her vagina during childbirth and the faces she was making. I still shiver when I think about it

And WHY do some of you people condemned affairs? I'm a man, and I think whomever is married to this loser should get a piece on the side and then take this guy for every penny he has in a divorce.

"Did you stop having sex witb DW because she became overweight/old"

I can't actually stop having sex, because I am a normal man with a normal sex drive for whom "sexless" is not a viable option.

And I am not the least bit turned off by a woman's natural aging process: my attraction is strongest to sexy women my age.

BUT.... there is no bloody excuse for her significant weight gain. TOTAL BONER KILLER!
If I had any other morally legit options for sex, it would not be with my overweight wife.

Anonymous wrote:No, my enthusiasm for my wife has nothing to do with her weight gain (minimal) or aging (natural). It's because her libido is low and she is rarely in mood. I would prefer a chubby, aging but sexually enthusiastic wife over a thin, beautiful cold wife any day.

Can we vote to block the "neighbor is your soulmate" and the "vagina during childbirth" posters while we are at it?

Well said!
Signed,
A slightly chubby, aging but sexually enthusiastic wife

My DH ( wife here) has gained quite a bit of weight during our marriage. If I gain weight and he loses desire for me because of fluctuation in my weight gain, well he can shit. It goes both ways.

I'm pretty sure the "childbirth" poster is a troll. He's been posting that thought in many threads for as long as I can remember.

Anonymous wrote:I stopped because I saw her vagina during childbirth and the faces she was making. I still shiver when I think about it

Father of 3 here. I hope she's getting some on the side. She deserves it. You're lame as hell.

Anonymous wrote:No, my enthusiasm for my wife has nothing to do with her weight gain (minimal) or aging (natural). It's because her libido is low and she is rarely in mood. I would prefer a chubby, aging but sexually enthusiastic wife over a thin, beautiful cold wife any day.

Can we vote to block the "neighbor is your soulmate" and the "vagina during childbirth" posters while we are at it?

No one takes them seriously anyway...

Anonymous wrote:I stopped because I saw her vagina during childbirth and the faces she was making. I still shiver when I think about it

Time to brush your teeth, Joshua!
Love,
Mom