Anonymous wrote:Op here. I've suffered all my life with something called body dismorphia disorder. It's crippling and I constantly think I'm unattractive, fat, etc.

He isn't worth it.....if someone doesn't care about you (I am not using the word love in this case because enough time hasn't passed) for the inside, then he isn't worth it.

Agree with the recommendation for therapy. After you dump the chump. It doesn't matter if he's otherwise nice, successful, attractive, etc. he's bad news.

Please take time to explore and resolve these negative feelings about yourself or you'll continue this pattern of picking men who don't treat you well.

Omg this is enraging, OP! DTMF immediately! I hate him.

OP believe me when I tell you, there are men who will worship your body. I felt like you because of my cellulite and stretched skin. Do not settle for this shit.

If he's not attracted to stretch marks, then why should he have the privilege of seeing them?

Dump him and tell him why.

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Anonymous wrote:Once you dump him, get into therapy. You need to get control of your body image or you will keep attracting guys who will tell you what you secretly think about yourself.

You are kidding me, right? You are the one who needs therapy. You need to deal with your abusive tendencies.

No, OP states she has body image issues and, it sounds like, low self-esteem. She WILL continue to attract losers until she feels confident in herself.

OP, believe us. You need to get this person out of your life right away. Do it now and when you are doubting yourself and your decision, post back here so we can reassure you.

Anonymous wrote:Once you dump him, get into therapy. You need to get control of your body image or you will keep attracting guys who will tell you what you secretly think about yourself.

You are kidding me, right? You are the one who needs therapy. You need to deal with your abusive tendencies.

Once you dump him, get into therapy. You need to get control of your body image or you will keep attracting guys who will tell you what you secretly think about yourself.

Friends treat each other with respect. You are clearly no friend of mine, my friend.

::brisk clap::

Okay then, so we've all decided and it's agreed. OP is breaking up with this dude. OP, report back when it's done - we'll all raise a pint of ice cream in your honor.

You need to lose him fast.

Anonymous wrote:You mean... your ex-boyfriend used to make fun of your body. He's a DB - get rid of him.

+1 why waste your time with loser when you could be dating can't-keep-my-hands-off-your-ass guy?

You mean... your ex-boyfriend used to make fun of your body. He's a DB - get rid of him.

Bye bye BF