I would definitely talk with the mother along with discussion of the tics. If you were in her shoes, wouldn't you need to know? I know your son may resist that but this is something he can't handle on his own if there is a problem. If the other mother resists, maybe him going isn't the best choice, especially since they could be in water when it happened again. There's definitely a balance between overprotecting him and letting him experience life so maybe your discussion with the doctor will help. Praying for you as you decide.

Anonymous wrote:And I would let him go. it is going to take a while to get this all sorted out and if it is seizures to get the right medication etc. So, there is no point in stopping your life.

Thank you for the advice. Yes of course I will bring it up with the doctor, was just lamenting how hard this is for my son. Will ask him if I need to say anything to the family my son will be staying with.