Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

Honey, DH here. You don't. Can you pick up some bread and milk on the way home? Thanks.

OP here, sorry my DH is lactose intolerant....

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

Sure honey. You can get boinked whenever you want while I have to work at it.

You need to offer the man a million dollars to sleep with his wife.

OP here, my husband gets laid 3 to 5 times a week! He does not need to pay me! I enjoy sex with him

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage?

You didn't destroy the marriage. It was already dead, or she wouldn't agree to sleep with you. She stopped being attracted to her husband, for whatever reason, and that opened the door for another man to take his place.

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Anonymous wrote:A single man has all the power in that scenario. He can threaten to blow up your marriage any time you do something he doesn't like. You idiot. At least cheat with a married man that has something to lose

Meh I think most single men are cool with this arrangement.

Exactly. The quote was written by a woman who was projecting. Men who sleep with married women do so specifically because it avoids having to make a commitment. It's all about the sex.

+1. I had sex with married women when I was single. I was indifferent to them being married. I was only interested in the fact they were women willing to have sex with me. All else being equal, I would have preferred they be single so they would have been available to sleep over for morning sex.

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage?

Yeah, it's a pretty nasty thing to do, but I still feel more visceral bad feelings towards a woman who cheats with a married man. Probably because I am a woman, and if another person knowingly impinged on my territory I would find a way to inflict some pretty terrible revenge. Yes, of course I'd be mad at my DH too, but he wouldn't have been the one who tried to "compete" with me so to speak, so the feeling is different.

In any case, playing a role in breaking down a family is lousy, regardless of gender.

No, he's just the one who has any intimate connection to you, and made vows of fidelity. Just those little things.

I'm a woman. I'd assume it mostly the conquest and getting milk someone else paid for. That said, when we were unhappily married, my ex-Husband started an emotional affair with an old friend who he reunited with on FB. She was married unhappily herself. After we separated, he flew across the country twice to sleep with her. I think he was hoping for instant second wife and thought that he could see that she was a good mom and kept a nice home. It didn't work out because she refused to leave her DH. At that point, there was some stalking and blackmail attempts which revealed the whole thing to everyone.

She has an open marriage.

Another has a don't ask/don't tell policy when traveling.

I don't want commitment (been there done that), but sex is great.

The only time I've done it was in a Bull type scenario. The DH was present.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

Sure honey. You can get boinked whenever you want while I have to work at it.

You need to offer the man a million dollars to sleep with his wife.

Anonymous wrote:Because she is my wife. Duh!

This is probably the #1 reason, Op.

Maybe there is something to that whole marriage thing after all, haha.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

Sure honey. You can get boinked whenever you want while I have to work at it.

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage?

Yeah, it's a pretty nasty thing to do, but I still feel more visceral bad feelings towards a woman who cheats with a married man. Probably because I am a woman, and if another person knowingly impinged on my territory I would find a way to inflict some pretty terrible revenge. Yes, of course I'd be mad at my DH too, but he wouldn't have been the one who tried to "compete" with me so to speak, so the feeling is different.

In any case, playing a role in breaking down a family is lousy, regardless of gender.

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage?

Of course he should, but that wasn't the question in the OP. The question was "why?"

Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage?

Wow, really people?

The reason men sleep with married women is so that they get sex with no headache and no pushing for commitment. Hello!

That is far and away the biggest reason. So don't kid yourself ladies, it's not because you're a "conquest." Unhappily married women are known to be the easiest lays and most desperate (i.e. require least amount of effort).