Anonymous wrote:I interpreted as meaning that she doesn't spend money on frivolous things such as designer handbags, clothing, shoes. She doesn't feel the need the maintain a ridiculous routine of "maintenance" (i.e. hair, nails, botox, etc). She probably lives in a modest, albeit nice, home with normal furnishings. It sounds like she simply doesn't need to "keep up with the Joneses" for the daily life, but has prioritized the important things in life such as educating her children and showing them the world.
Of course she can choose to live life the way she sees fit, but her point was that she is paving her own way rather than falling into the trap so many new-money 1%er's do by feeling the need to show off their money for things to simply keep up rather than doing what they really want - no matter what that may be for someone. I'm not sure why that bothers you so much.
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We are a 1% family. DH grew up in NE DC, went to DC schools in the 70s and 80s (and lived to tell about it) and was raised in public housing by a single mother. He majored in computer science at an average state university and got his masters degree in CS at night while working for the government afterwards.
I grew up upper middle class, taught school for 10 years, got a masters degree, stayed home to raise kids, did the volunteer thing and held board positions at non-profits. Can't get a job to save me life!
So your DH working in computer science is the entire reason you're a 1% family? I guess he no longer works for the government. I also earned a MSCS at night while working full time. I've done very well with my career. I'll never be poor but I'm nowhere near the 1%. I have to ask: Did he earn a lot of his wealth during the dot-com boom? I sure did but it still didn't put me in the 1
what do you define as 1% -- you said he works for the government -- that's not really the 1% as far as most of us see it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't live like a 1%er, but our kids colleges are paid for and we take great trips.
What do you mean you "don't live like a 1%er"? An income in that range very much allows you to choose to live life the way you see fit.
We are a 1% family. DH grew up in NE DC, went to DC schools in the 70s and 80s (and lived to tell about it) and was raised in public housing by a single mother. He majored in computer science at an average state university and got his masters degree in CS at night while working for the government afterwards.
I grew up upper middle class, taught school for 10 years, got a masters degree, stayed home to raise kids, did the volunteer thing and held board positions at non-profits. Can't get a job to save me life!
So your DH working in computer science is the entire reason you're a 1% family? I guess he no longer works for the government. I also earned a MSCS at night while working full time. I've done very well with my career. I'll never be poor but I'm nowhere near the 1%. I have to ask: Did he earn a lot of his wealth during the dot-com boom? I sure did but it still didn't put me in the 1
Anonymous wrote:Better to be a philosophy major at Amherst, than a finance major at Average State U...
Anonymous wrote:I don't live like a 1%er, but our kids colleges are paid for and we take great trips.
Anonymous wrote:Not sure if this is top 1% of individual earners or all includes all adults in 1% households but it's interesting to see that engineering majors aren't more likely than English majors to be in it, while Finance majors aren't particularly well represented.
http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/01/18/what-the-top-1-of-earners-majored-in/
Also interesting is the variation within the social sciences - political science and history majors are more likely to be in it than psych or sociology majors for instance.
Anonymous wrote:We are a 1% family. DH grew up in NE DC, went to DC schools in the 70s and 80s (and lived to tell about it) and was raised in public housing by a single mother. He majored in computer science at an average state university and got his masters degree in CS at night while working for the government afterwards.
I grew up upper middle class, taught school for 10 years, got a masters degree, stayed home to raise kids, did the volunteer thing and held board positions at non-profits. Can't get a job to save me life!
Anonymous wrote:Well I wonder how many of these 1%'ers come from a 1% family? I had friends in college who were rich. They could major in anything and when the graduated they went into the family business.