If you have evidence that he is committing an illegal activity, yes, say something.

If he is working stoned, that is a potentially big deal -- just like coming to work drunk. Would you report him if you thought he was an alcoholic?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What? Ignore the PP! As a parent of young kids who belong to a swim & tennis club like you describe, that's appealling !! Lifeguard / Dealer - wtf? SAY SOMETHING ...

I agree. It is appealing. Take the fam to the pool, come home with a little treat.

Life is for living.

+420

Ignore the crazies.

Anonymous wrote:Do you have any evidence he has been high at his job?

Any evidence he's dealing other than hearsay?

Anonymous wrote:

Demand to have all your lifeguards drug tested.

Yes! Do it! Don't you get everything you demand?

Demand to have all your lifeguards drug tested.

Anonymous wrote:We just moved to a Bethesda neighborhood that has a swim and tennis club for residents. I recognized the 17 year old lifeguard as a boy my DD used to buy pot off of and he was a regular user. My DD went through a very long and difficult rehab but I believe she is clean. She admitted based on her texts with others that he is still dealing and using. Do I mention this to the Association or just let it go? Not trying to cause trouble.

you made your DD do rehab for pot????

Do you have any evidence he has been high at his job?

Anonymous wrote:What? Ignore the PP! As a parent of young kids who belong to a swim & tennis club like you describe, that's appealling !! Lifeguard / Dealer - wtf? SAY SOMETHING ...

I agree. It is appealing. Take the fam to the pool, come home with a little treat.

Life is for living.

Anonymous wrote:So selling pot is OK now? Just a youthful transgression? Oh.

Yes. It's just pot. It's everywhere.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope you did not send your kid to rehab for pot. If so, that will be the worst decision of your life. My parents did it. Turned a normal kid into a hardcore dig addict as he got to know many there.

Are you crazy? Your parents try to get you to stop using drugs, you continue to use them, then blame your parents? You, my friend, are a typical drug addict. Grow up.

I'm guessing the PP was referring to her brother. Regardless, what she said makes sense. While probably well intended, sending a kid who was smoking pot to rehab where he or she lived & socialized with a peer group made up of hard core drug users was not a good idea.

If he's still dealing, this is the ideal place for him to get clients. I'm not sure what I'd do, but I most certainly would not want my child around him given this history. If you say something, focus on what you know for a fact so he's not getting fired due to speculation. I know people make mistakes, but this environment really lends itself to abuse because there are so many young people around, likely with a decent amount of disposable income. If you say nothing, maybe finding another club for your family would be a good idea.

Anonymous wrote:I hope you did not send your kid to rehab for pot. If so, that will be the worst decision of your life. My parents did it. Turned a normal kid into a hardcore dig addict as he got to know many there.

Are you crazy? Your parents try to get you to stop using drugs, you continue to use them, then blame your parents? You, my friend, are a typical drug addict. Grow up.

So selling pot is OK now? Just a youthful transgression? Oh.

Anonymous wrote:I hope you did not send your kid to rehab for pot. If so, that will be the worst decision of your life. My parents did it. Turned a normal kid into a hardcore dig addict as he got to know many there.

OP here. I said rehab but really it was psychiatric care and ended up with a ADHD diagnosis. On meds now and doing well. Thanks for your response.