Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your husband is silly. He's probably met a John b/f who wasn't a Jonathan? A Beth that wasn't Elizabeth? A Meg that wasn't Margaret. Or a Jack?
Max is fine on it's own.
I thought John and Jonathan, while having similar meanings, came from different root languages. Therefore John isn't a short or nickname for Jonathan.
Anonymous wrote:Your husband is silly. He's probably met a John b/f who wasn't a Jonathan? A Beth that wasn't Elizabeth? A Meg that wasn't Margaret. Or a Jack?
Max is fine on it's own.
Anonymous wrote:My father, born in 1945, and his grandfather, born sometime in the late 1800s, were both named Max as their full name. So it has been a real name for at least 125 years.
Anonymous wrote:Sure it's a fine name but also a very popular one right now. Be prepared for lots of Maxs in his class. So make sure you like Max First initial of your last name, because that's how he'll be known all through school
We didn't know when we picked the name that it was gaining popularity.
Anonymous wrote:Max is a nickname. You can opt to give a child that as his given name, but historically, it is a nickname, not a given name.
As has been pointed out, the trend of naming kids just nicknames has become common. I'm of the school that short nicknames are good for common use, but that they shouldn't be used as given names. But then, I only really care about my family. What other families do is really up to them. I know a ton of kids that were given nicknames as their full given name and it doesn't really make a difference to me.
So in a way, both of you are right. Your husband is right that traditionally Max is a nickname and not a given name. You are right that many people do name their children using nicknames as the given name. What really matters is that you come to a compromise agreement of what you both want to do.
Anonymous wrote:OP, what about Maxim, nn Max?
It is a proper "real" name, and while more common in Slavic countries, has a solid English tradition as well. (I just taught the novel Rebecca with my AP English class: Maxim de Winter is Rebecca's husband, and the lord of the manor Manderley).
Anonymous wrote:Sure it's a proper name although you'll get many folks who say otherwise. I have a Max-- "just Max."