Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 23:40     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
I personally would feel odd not giving anything but a cute gift set of a mixing bowl & pancake mix came to mind.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 22:23     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
$50 and call it a day.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 21:59     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?

Wow. I had no idea wedding "extras" could be so expensive.
It's ridiculous, OP. Give a heartfelt card and that's it.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 21:52     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
You could do a nice, personal card and a token gift. Bride may or may not be offended, but who cares? She is the rude one if she gets offended by it. In retrospect, I don't think any of my bridesmaids bought us a gift, and I made very sure none of them spent anywhere close to what you have.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 21:50     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
$100
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 20:51     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Anonymous wrote:I would do $250. You still need to give a gift.
Don't be cheap.


What's your HHI? I wouldn't give this much even if I hadn't spent a ton of money on the wedding already...
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 19:48     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing.
But if you feel like you need to do something, max of $60


$60 lol
Better to give nothing.


You sound spoiled and pretentious. I hope you received nothing at your wedding. $60 is more than adequate. Gifts are optional anyway, dingaling.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 19:45     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing.
But if you feel like you need to do something, max of $60


$60 lol
Better to give nothing.


You are a delight.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 18:39     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Anonymous wrote:Mental Note - Decline to be in all wedding parties.


Right?! I'm the PP from page 1 who was maid of honor twice and a bridesmaid once, and each of those weddings cost me well over $1k. Sometimes it's better to just say no, like Nancy Reagan told us to.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 18:25     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Nothing, you've done enough and she should be appreciative.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 18:09     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Anonymous wrote:I would do something very small, a token gift. Maybe something funny and personal, like a kitchen towel with a funny saying on it or whatever your taste may be. $15 range and a card. Done.


This.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 18:01     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
I would do something very small, a token gift. Maybe something funny and personal, like a kitchen towel with a funny saying on it or whatever your taste may be. $15 range and a card. Done.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 18:00     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Mental Note - Decline to be in all wedding parties.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 17:59     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
Something small, $50-$100 since you've already been very generous.
Anonymous
Post 05/29/2016 17:55     Subject: How much - if anything - would you give?
You've given two gifts, in addition to plenty of additional money and time. You are not obligated to give another gift, but give a small one if you like.