Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I just got an invitation to a wedding, when I specifically told my friend I couldn't attend 6 months ago. No, I am not sending a gift. I only send gifts when I attend weddings. I'm declining another wedding actually because the groom sent me a text (after I received the save the date but begore I got the wedding invite) telling me where they are registered but that they also wanted cash in addition to the registry. Yeah no, I'm not participating in tacky gift grabs!
I wouldn't assume the first invitation is a gift grab. Your friend likely sent it just in case you end up being available.
Agreed. I would never not send a friend or family member a wedding invitation, even if I knew they couldn't come and the invite was just a formality. It would seem so rude not to invite them. I wouldn't expect a gift, so don't think you need to send one, but just wanted to give a different perspective so you don't wrongly judge your friend!