Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 17:46     Subject: Re:It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:OP, you haven't answered whether or not this is a problem for you or your husband. Do either of you want to have sex with the other?


I mentioned he has been hinting at it since we came home from the hospital . Yes he does want to .
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 16:03     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you dont want your husband to leave you, do it anyway. Not having sex for a year is technically spousal abuse. You are an abuser. We all do things we dont like. Frankly, i dont like it either, havent for years, but i try to do it once a week anyway. Its your duty.


Show me a state or federal statute listing lack of sex as a chargeable offense. A majority of married people would have criminal records if your bogus contention was actually true.


Lots of forms of abuse are not found in statutes and regs. Is verbal abuse criminally punishable?


Maybe not criminal, but the first PP is asserting that there are applicable technical standards for spousal abuse somewhere.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:53     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Have a glass of wine and give him a BJ or a TJ. Seriously, you need to get back on that horse.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:27     Subject: Re:It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
OP, you haven't answered whether or not this is a problem for you or your husband. Do either of you want to have sex with the other?
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:25     Subject: Re:It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:Does your husband think your vagina is now just a huge wide opening that will never close up and maybe he feels intimidated to have sex with you because you wont "feel anything"?

Many dumb ass men with no concept on how the birds and the bees works feel like this. Its natural.


Haha I don't think so but I had my baby via c section .
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:24     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:The year without sex during the baby wasn't bad because I knew that would pass. It's the slow drip feed sex that's been happening for the 10 years since then which is maddening -- because it's forever.


Are you op? Im confused. . .
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:23     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you dont want your husband to leave you, do it anyway. Not having sex for a year is technically spousal abuse. You are an abuser. We all do things we dont like. Frankly, i dont like it either, havent for years, but i try to do it once a week anyway. Its your duty.


Show me a state or federal statute listing lack of sex as a chargeable offense. A majority of married people would have criminal records if your bogus contention was actually true.


Lots of forms of abuse are not found in statutes and regs. Is verbal abuse criminally punishable?
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:05     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You probably should continue to abstain so you two whackos don't conceive again. Carry on with current plan.


+1

+2
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 15:00     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:You probably should continue to abstain so you two whackos don't conceive again. Carry on with current plan.


+1
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 14:44     Subject: Re:It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Does your husband think your vagina is now just a huge wide opening that will never close up and maybe he feels intimidated to have sex with you because you wont "feel anything"?

Many dumb ass men with no concept on how the birds and the bees works feel like this. Its natural.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 14:40     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
The year without sex during the baby wasn't bad because I knew that would pass. It's the slow drip feed sex that's been happening for the 10 years since then which is maddening -- because it's forever.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 14:05     Subject: Re:It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
At least give the man a BJ....
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 14:01     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
My exDW wouldnt have sex for a year or so after our first child. I, personally, wasn't up to waiting that long!
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 13:42     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
i think i went that long without! can't quite remember. don't worry, you'll have sex again. do you want to?
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2016 13:39     Subject: It's been 1 yr since I've had sex
Anonymous wrote:How is your DH coping with this? No man can "hold it" for a year.


Her DH didn't want to hurt the baby!