Yes.

Yes and if he did the dishes.

Anonymous wrote:My theory is that the women saying they would have more sex with their husbands if they suddenly got themselves in shape are actually picturing other men in their minds. It's not that the only thing keeping them from throwing themselves at their husbands is 20 extra lbs and some love handles. It's that they are bored with hubby and want some strange.

Yes, that's a gross oversimplification. The weight is an excuse. If your husbands were ripped and model hot, you'd find some other reason to avoid sex with them. Try looking inward to find out why the passion is dwindling in your marriage.

because if i'm supposed to be sleeping with someone who only pays attention to me when he wants to get laid, he might as well have a nice body.

Anonymous wrote:Guy here: I do a lot of choreplay also. I'm still last on the list and when it does happen she asks that I get it over with quickly.

If you want a family, get married. If you want good sex, stay single.

There's your problem, idiot. She is bored because you are a pussy who does housework.

My theory is that the women saying they would have more sex with their husbands if they suddenly got themselves in shape are actually picturing other men in their minds. It's not that the only thing keeping them from throwing themselves at their husbands is 20 extra lbs and some love handles. It's that they are bored with hubby and want some strange.

Yes, that's a gross oversimplification. The weight is an excuse. If your husbands were ripped and model hot, you'd find some other reason to avoid sex with them. Try looking inward to find out why the passion is dwindling in your marriage.

Anonymous wrote:I'm no longer interested in sex so no, his shape means nothing. If he offered a divorce I'd jump on that like a hungry dog craving a bone though.

Why no interest in sex?

I'm no longer interested in sex so no, his shape means nothing. If he offered a divorce I'd jump on that like a hungry dog craving a bone though.

Yes, but it's not just the physical appeal that goes along with that. It's also because that would mean he cares about his health and appearance, etc. and that is also attractive.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No.

He'd be at the gym in the am when I want some.

Who would I drink with?

Definitly not, sounds really boring and boring does not turn me on.

So, he can't be in shape and be fun? It's one or the other?

In shape... Yes

Really fit... No.

YES! I've stayed fit and the same weight for my 15 years of marriage. I look hot. DH looks middle-aged and has gained 25 pounds since we married. He is still sort of cute to me, but the fat guy is NOT sexy.

Anonymous wrote:Who are all these "yes" women? I've stayed in shape our whole marriage and am in better shape than ever these days. I still have a full head of hair and look ten years younger than my age. I always make sure she cums first and it almost always leaves her breathless and unable to move her legs.

And yet...

Still getting chore sex 3 out of 4 times at a rate of about 1 x per week. And don't give me the old "do more housework" line. I already do more than my share.

Guy here: I do a lot of choreplay also. I'm still last on the list and when it does happen she asks that I get it over with quickly.

If you want a family, get married. If you want good sex, stay single.

My BF is in excellent shape and gets it much more often and has kept me interested much longer than my doughy, not even obese, but out of shape ex husband. Id be lying if I said this wasn't a factor in our great sex life.

Anonymous wrote:Who are all these "yes" women? I've stayed in shape our whole marriage and am in better shape than ever these days. I still have a full head of hair and look ten years younger than my age. I always make sure she cums first and it almost always leaves her breathless and unable to move her legs.

And yet...

Still getting chore sex 3 out of 4 times at a rate of about 1 x per week. And don't give me the old "do more housework" line. I already do more than my share.

attitude maybe?

Anonymous wrote:No.

He'd be at the gym in the am when I want some.

Who would I drink with?

Definitly not, sounds really boring and boring does not turn me on.

So, he can't be in shape and be fun? It's one or the other?

Who are all these "yes" women? I've stayed in shape our whole marriage and am in better shape than ever these days. I still have a full head of hair and look ten years younger than my age. I always make sure she cums first and it almost always leaves her breathless and unable to move her legs.

And yet...

Still getting chore sex 3 out of 4 times at a rate of about 1 x per week. And don't give me the old "do more housework" line. I already do more than my share.