Fortunate that my DW love sex, and absolutely lives for hotel sex - brings out her inner freak bc she can let loose and we don't have to worry about the kids hearing us.

Another man here, who occasionally has performance issues because I have emptied the gun just before wife asks. We have sex 2-3x per month. I can state with 99% certainty when there won't be sex, but if I am wrong, its better to decline than to be frustrated the other days.

I don't think that is the problem with vacation husband. Being with wife for a week in hotel, I could have sex everyday. I don't think men can go a week without ejaculation - I can't go 3 days - so I assume he either is masturbating instead of sex which is disturbing, or he has a medical condition.

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Anonymous wrote:I tried with DH last night and he couldn't get hard. He is embarrassed and it's been a month since we had sex. He always says he wants it and then claims performance anxiety. I quit trying because he was never very good anyway. So frustrated.

This has happened to me because my wife rarely wants to have sex. So I jerk off a lot without any expectation that we'll be having sex. Occasionally when, out of the blue, she tries to initiate, I'll have masturbated recently and haven't had enough time to reload.

Glad I'm not the only one. Wednesday morning I know I'm ok as I can't remember having sex on a day that didn't start with an 'S' in the last 10 years. If I'm left alone on Saturday morning for a while and feeling the need to unload, it's gamble on whether I want to see if I have sex that weekend or just take care of things myself.

I've learned to be fairly stoic about the lack of sex, but I do get resentful when I pass up an opportunity to take care of myself in hopes of having sex with my wife, then she rejects me or falls asleep at 8 p.m. on a Saturday night or whatever.

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Anonymous wrote:I tried with DH last night and he couldn't get hard. He is embarrassed and it's been a month since we had sex. He always says he wants it and then claims performance anxiety. I quit trying because he was never very good anyway. So frustrated.

This has happened to me because my wife rarely wants to have sex. So I jerk off a lot without any expectation that we'll be having sex. Occasionally when, out of the blue, she tries to initiate, I'll have masturbated recently and haven't had enough time to reload.

Glad I'm not the only one. Wednesday morning I know I'm ok as I can't remember having sex on a day that didn't start with an 'S' in the last 10 years. If I'm left alone on Saturday morning for a while and feeling the need to unload, it's gamble on whether I want to see if I have sex that weekend or just take care of things myself.

Anonymous wrote:Went away for six days. My husband never had an orgasm with me. He tried once through intercourse. Never wanted a bj. Isn't this strange?

No be thankful. Can't you just enjoy a nice vacation.

Anonymous wrote:I tried with DH last night and he couldn't get hard. He is embarrassed and it's been a month since we had sex. He always says he wants it and then claims performance anxiety. I quit trying because he was never very good anyway. So frustrated.

This has happened to me because my wife rarely wants to have sex. So I jerk off a lot without any expectation that we'll be having sex. Occasionally when, out of the blue, she tries to initiate, I'll have masturbated recently and haven't had enough time to reload.

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Anonymous wrote:He's taking ED drugs without your knowing and forgot them on vacation.

Do guys hide that from their wives?

All the time.

I'm married a mere 11 years, no sex in months. Huge bummer.

Mine did. He didn't fuck me for eight months, didn't tell me he had ED, then got viagra. Finally told me later when I was going to leave him.

Anonymous wrote:He's taking ED drugs without your knowing and forgot them on vacation.

Do guys hide that from their wives?

He's taking ED drugs without your knowing and forgot them on vacation.

I love vacation sex. Married 20 years. Something about the unfamiliar.