Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friends works in obgyn office and I suspect nobody asks or cares.

So many women getting sti's from H's.

I'd like to know more. What about HPV?

PP again...and correct me if I'm wrong but there is no test for HPV infections in men. Is this correct?

No test for men, but the can get a vaccine.

Vaccine does not protect against all strains.

The day after I found out about my husband's affair, we both got tested. He protested that the other woman was this pure woman who had always been faithful to her husband, who was her only lover. I pointed out that there's no way he knows that was true and even if it was, my husband told me that the OW's husband was allegedly a horrible husband who stayed out late all of the time and if that was true, how could anyone trust what that dude was up to. My husband seemed totally shocked, like he had never contemplated such a thing.

Honestly, I don't believe for one second that the OW's husband was as evil as described, and I wouldn't trust the OW if she told me the sky was blue.

I don't want to use condoms with my AP. I don't want herpes or anything else either. Lose lose situation. All it takes is one partner at one point in their life.

My guess is most APs get away from condoms eventually. What's the point in asking if lies can be told and cheaters lie. So what, do you trust what they say or do you assume your AP will likely give you something? Even post divorce dating, the statistics are so high. Getting worse with age.

If you knew you had something when and how would you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend or AP?

That sucks 16:15 I would be totally pissed too.

Anonymous wrote:DH had an affair, AP was also married. They told each other they were "clean" and had sex without condoms on two occasions. After I found out, I made DH get tested. Positive for herpes. Idiots. Just because you're well-educated, rich, smart, whatever doesn't mean you can't get STDs people.

you believe they only had unprotected sex twice? thats a lie. once you abandon the condoms after the first or second hookup you don't go back. BTW my AP told me he tested positive for Herpes but said it wasn't the bad kind - I was thinking no big deal - the cold sore kind until I was tested and totally shocked and pissed. I guess he lied to me and his DW.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friends works in obgyn office and I suspect nobody asks or cares.

So many women getting sti's from H's.

I'd like to know more. What about HPV?

PP again...and correct me if I'm wrong but there is no test for HPV infections in men. Is this correct?

No test for men, but the can get a vaccine.

How can there be no test for men?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friends works in obgyn office and I suspect nobody asks or cares.

So many women getting sti's from H's.

I'd like to know more. What about HPV?

PP again...and correct me if I'm wrong but there is no test for HPV infections in men. Is this correct?

No test for men, but the can get a vaccine.