Anonymous wrote:Just a question do you need to orgasam to get pregnant? , with my first I never orgasam , in fact the is the honest to god truth I have never had a orgasam in my entire life . I'm 36 but I think I have them in my dreams .. It is bizzare , also my husband is lazy & pretty much all past boyfriends haven't succeed because it takes too long I'm guessing.
Hopefully I can get pregnant again without an orgasam , my gyno even said it helps I'm getting worried again

No, you don't need to. We've been trying for a long time and sometimes the timing is just "duty sex" and I want to get it over with quickly. I have gotten pregnant on such occasions.
For your own sake, however, you may want to read up on self-pleasure. No need to forego an orgasm just because your husband can't give you one. My husband is not lazy but although he's eager, he's not especially talented in that arena, so sometimes I will do for myself and we both enjoy that. At 36 you should definitely concentrate on yourself, not just your husband.