Anonymous wrote:Thanks for all the replies and suggestions. I resigned yesterday, simply saying that the job wasn't a good fit and since I'd been there such a brief time I thought it was best not to delay the decision so that they could move on. To the poster who read between the lines and saw some interest in fixing the problem, you were right. I enjoy the challenge of solving problems and fixing messes. But only in an environment where there is transparency with senior management - meaning, they understand the problems and want them fixed. In this case, several of the significant problems have been allowed to exist by the equity partners who don't want a hit to their capital accounts to fix the mess on the balance sheet. And, I have learned that my boss has a very close personal relationship with one of the equity partners (who happened to bring him in for the job.) So, no opportunity to go there and suggest I could fix things. And, to another poster, yes, I am in my early 50s so while that may be an issue finding my next job, I am willing to take that risk. I think if I had stayed, this house of cards would have ultimately fallen down and I would have been the finance/accounting person standing there when it did. Thanks again. I am relieved and a bit scared, but confident it was the right choice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, you've said a couple of times that you could fix what ails this firm. I wonder if it weren't for the terrible boss if you'd actually be kind of excited at the prospect of facing the challenge of getting this place in order. That's kind of what I'm reading between the lines. If you are sort of excited at the idea of fixing the problems, you could throw a hail mary and go to the Exec Office and lay it on the line. "I've only been here two weeks but it is clear to me that the accounting department is a mess. I'm confident that I could get it back in order but I cannot do it with Mr. xxx at the helm. I have resigned and will be seeking new employment. If personnel changes are made here that would enable me to return, give me a call."
NP here. That is a cool idea. Worth a shot.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Accepted a new job. In first ten days, I can tell it was a big mistake. Culture is awful, partners bickering, no accountability, every man for himself type of mentality. Other managers came to me in the first week to warn me about the guy I work for (not trustworthy, will throw you under the bus, incompetent). I'm already seeing the way he blames others. And the department that I am in charge of (accounting) is in complete disarray. It will take years to fix and it's clearly not a priority for the firm as they've let it go unmanaged for years. I think it would be best to get out fast and let them find someone else. For what it's worth, I have been in the work force for 30 years, so I've seen a lot of dysfunction, but this is over the top. Any advice from others who have found themselves in this situation?
this happened to DH! Only ours included a cross-country relocation. Within the first week on the job DH realized he made a HUGE mistake. his boss was certifiable, an alcoholic, terribly incompetent, threw him under the bus on a daily basis and stole large sums of money from the company. But because we made a cross country move DH felt he needed to stick it out. big mistake.....
OP - start looking for another job yesterday. get ....out.....NOW!!
Anonymous wrote:OP, you've said a couple of times that you could fix what ails this firm. I wonder if it weren't for the terrible boss if you'd actually be kind of excited at the prospect of facing the challenge of getting this place in order. That's kind of what I'm reading between the lines. If you are sort of excited at the idea of fixing the problems, you could throw a hail mary and go to the Exec Office and lay it on the line. "I've only been here two weeks but it is clear to me that the accounting department is a mess. I'm confident that I could get it back in order but I cannot do it with Mr. xxx at the helm. I have resigned and will be seeking new employment. If personnel changes are made here that would enable me to return, give me a call."