When I think back to the stupidest thing I did in my 20s, and then imagine that thing being recorded and disseminated throughout the world, becoming infamous for it, that mistake following me for the rest of my days, it makes me sick. She's a brave lady and I admire her for what she's made of her life in spite of it all.

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Anonymous wrote:looks like she lost the puppy fat a lot of women have in their early 20's. She was cute before, but she looks really good now.

I remember thinking at the time that she was a total dumbass, but I do feel bad that one lapse in judgment had to follow her for the rest of her life. Too bad she confided in someone with an ax to grind; she could have kept things secret, had a normal career and written a killer tell-all much later in life.

(and yeah, I think Clinton f'ed up. Bigtime. Bigger error in judgment. abuse of power. But they were both adults, so her judgment was an issue too.)

Aside from hooking up with a married person being not-so-great, what did she do wrong, exactly?

If hooking up with a married person isn't enough (IMHO, it is), hooking up with your boss is also a significant lapse in judgment -- more so when your boss is in a position that receives a lot of scrutiny.

(Should've indicated, NP here, not the PP you were quoting!)

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Anonymous wrote:looks like she lost the puppy fat a lot of women have in their early 20's. She was cute before, but she looks really good now.

I remember thinking at the time that she was a total dumbass, but I do feel bad that one lapse in judgment had to follow her for the rest of her life. Too bad she confided in someone with an ax to grind; she could have kept things secret, had a normal career and written a killer tell-all much later in life.

(and yeah, I think Clinton f'ed up. Bigtime. Bigger error in judgment. abuse of power. But they were both adults, so her judgment was an issue too.)

Aside from hooking up with a married person being not-so-great, what did she do wrong, exactly?

If hooking up with a married person isn't enough (IMHO, it is), hooking up with your boss is also a significant lapse in judgment -- more so when your boss is in a position that receives a lot of scrutiny.

She looks great. I always felt bad for her after what she went through in the media.

She looks natural and I love that black jacket she has.

Anonymous wrote:I really enjoyed her TED talk and I had my DD watch it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_8y0WLm78U

Thank you for posting this! I hadn't seen it. She's actually a pretty great speaker, and I'm in awe of her resilience. Good for her. Shame on those who so needlessly bullied her.

I saw her in person back when the scandal broke. I think she just lost weight, that's all.

Anonymous wrote:You are missing the point of her anti-online bullying message. By a lot.

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Anonymous wrote:The recent photos of her seem to suggest that she's had a BUNCH of surgery. Her face isn't even the same shape anymore. Did she have bones removed or something?

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/apr/16/monica-lewinsky-shame-sticks-like-tar-jon-ronson

She has lost a lot of weight and this will change the shape of her face. She is still a very pretty woman. The interview was spectacularly good. I am happy that she has found a purpose for her life and I wish her success, happiness, and peace.

Anonymous wrote:I always feel so sorry about what Congressional witch hunters did to her.

FIFY

Makeup and weightloss. Similar thing happened to me when I lost weight.

And I echo the comments about feeling for her. She was a young woman who did dumb things, and didn't deserve to pay the rest of her life for it.

I hope she's able to be happy and live without the insane scrutiny decades ago.

So, the takeaway from this article for you is to bash Monica's face on an anonymous forum. Maybe we should focus on this:

[After stating how the feminists let Monica free fall and wondering if the same would happen today.]

"Either way, misogyny is still thriving. When the Guardian began researching the online harassment of its own writers, they discovered something bleak: of the 10 contributors who receive the most abuse in the comment threads, eight are women – five white, three non-white – and the other two are black men. Overall, women Guardian writers get more abuse than men, regardless of what they write about, but especially when they write about rape and feminism. I noticed something similar during my two years interviewing publicly shamed people. When a man is shamed, it’s usually, “I’m going to get you fired.” When a woman is shamed it’s, “I’m going to rape you and get you fired.”

And we wonder how, as women, we are often our own enemies.

Anonymous wrote:looks like she lost the puppy fat a lot of women have in their early 20's. She was cute before, but she looks really good now.

I remember thinking at the time that she was a total dumbass, but I do feel bad that one lapse in judgment had to follow her for the rest of her life. Too bad she confided in someone with an ax to grind; she could have kept things secret, had a normal career and written a killer tell-all much later in life.

(and yeah, I think Clinton f'ed up. Bigtime. Bigger error in judgment. abuse of power. But they were both adults, so her judgment was an issue too.)

Aside from hooking up with a married person being not-so-great, what did she do wrong, exactly?

I think she looks really pretty. I wish her emojis were available on iPhones.

I really enjoyed her TED talk and I had my DD watch it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_8y0WLm78U