Anonymous
03/29/2016 17:10
Subject: Going from FWB to BF/GF?
Anonymous wrote:He's a good friend. We've been friends 14 years. We have our history, and been through stuff together.
He's a very sweet guy he just doesn't excite me the way other men do and have.
As for sex . He's not my type, but it's not like I find him repulsive. He's also very considerate in bed so it's good, maybe not the most mind blowing ever, but he works hard to please.
I just know if I tell him I'm not interested in dating him it will break his heart.
Perhaps if I tell him I'm not looking for a boyfriend now, which is true, it will be kinder,
"Its not like I find him repulsive"???? How on earth did you end up in bed with someone you're not attracted to but don't find repulsive. The bar seems awfully low for you.
I agree with the others. You're having sex with him so you've ruined the friendship already. Just cut off all contact if you don't want to hurt him even more.
