Anonymous
Post 03/13/2016 12:10     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men avoiding "promiscuous women" and instead marrying the good girls could be why there are so many threads from men whining about not getting laid often enough.


But that implies there is such a thing as a "promiscuous woman" and we all agree there isn't such a thing.


No, we don't all agree that there's no such thing as s promiscuous woman. That's just incorrect - and I AM a woman. And not an overly religious one who saved themselves for marriage, either. There are promiscuous people of both genders, absolutely. The problem is the double standard that, societally, it's somehow a positive for a man (or at least not a negative) and it's a negative when it's true about a woman. Just because you don't like the way the term is used doesn't mean it simply isn't true. Overweight people should not be "fat-shamed" - this does not mean you can go around saying there are no overweight people. It's simply not true.


Disagree. Promiscuity is subjective--some people would consider anyone who's slept with anyone outside marriage to be promiscuous, others wouldn't consider someone with dozens of partners to be promiscuous. It's just a social construct, and not one that anyone can agree upon. So no, you can't point at someone and intone "there be a promiscuous woman".
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2016 12:01     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:Men avoiding "promiscuous women" and instead marrying the good girls could be why there are so many threads from men whining about not getting laid often enough.


+1,000,000.

Hit the nail on the head!!!

Anonymous
Post 03/13/2016 03:53     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:Tina fey, carrie underwood also a virgin at marriage


Tina Fey never said she waited until marriage. She said she was a virgin until she was 24. She got married in 2001 when she was 31.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2016 03:38     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Tina fey, carrie underwood also a virgin at marriage
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2016 03:36     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men avoiding "promiscuous women" and instead marrying the good girls could be why there are so many threads from men whining about not getting laid often enough. [/quot

+100 signed a Promiscuous women before marriage and has a very happy DH who gets sex regularly, as I have a sex drive


Um no. Plenty of sexual ppl who were virgin at marriage. Courtney stodden, jessica simpson, isnt serena williams also a virgin? Lol I think she said so
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2016 01:09     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:DH here: I actually think promiscuous women are sexy. So it's not universally seen as a negative. Having said that, extreme promiscuity often seems correlated with other issues that are negatives, such as abuse, substance issues, etc., so it can be a red flag in a potential long-term partner until you can rule those issues out. But if it turns out a woman just likes sex a lot and has a healthy view of it, it's not an issue.


That was my thought as well.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 18:30     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:A Catholic man I once dated called me promiscuous because I didn't wait for marriage to have sex. No, my "promiscuity" wasn't a problem in attracting a good man with whom I wanted to have a long term relationship (and if you didn't catch the context clues, it was not with the man who called me promiscuous).

I don't know what you mean by "settle down" sexually. If I was promiscuous because I had sex before marriage, I suppose I settled down the second I was married.


I could only think of the english term. My husband is american.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 18:29     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:A Catholic man I once dated called me promiscuous because I didn't wait for marriage to have sex. No, my "promiscuity" wasn't a problem in attracting a good man with whom I wanted to have a long term relationship (and if you didn't catch the context clues, it was not with the man who called me promiscuous).

I don't know what you mean by "settle down" sexually. If I was promiscuous because I had sex before marriage, I suppose I settled down the second I was married.


I could only think of the english term. My husband is american.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 18:28     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and I think OPs question was interesting. I do wonder what men classify as promiscuous.

What is considered an average number for a 25 year old woman vs a 50 year old woman.



I can tell you when I know to run

When I meet someone for an activity and they start flirting with other men while I am there That is the type of woman to run from


What do you consider "flirting with other men"?


Looking them in the eye.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 18:28     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and I think OPs question was interesting. I do wonder what men classify as promiscuous.

What is considered an average number for a 25 year old woman vs a 50 year old woman.



Thank you. I thought the term was an objective one in english, not as value ladden as the danish term "billige pige" (cheap girl).
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 18:25     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:Threads like these are designed to get people to argue. I have never asked a woman about partner count and never will. in fact, when women have volunteered this number I have considered it unnerving because to me it appears that she is expecting some kind of reaction.


No, i just wanted to see if there were different points of view in America.
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 17:23     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and I think OPs question was interesting. I do wonder what men classify as promiscuous.

What is considered an average number for a 25 year old woman vs a 50 year old woman.



I can tell you when I know to run

When I meet someone for an activity and they start flirting with other men while I am there That is the type of woman to run from


What do you consider "flirting with other men"?
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 17:21     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and I think OPs question was interesting. I do wonder what men classify as promiscuous.

What is considered an average number for a 25 year old woman vs a 50 year old woman.



I can tell you when I know to run

When I meet someone for an activity and they start flirting with other men while I am there That is the type of woman to run from
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 15:10     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
Anonymous wrote:Men avoiding "promiscuous women" and instead marrying the good girls could be why there are so many threads from men whining about not getting laid often enough. [/quot

+100 signed a Promiscuous women before marriage and has a very happy DH who gets sex regularly, as I have a sex drive
Anonymous
Post 03/12/2016 15:09     Subject: Promiscuous Women?
I am a woman and I think OPs question was interesting. I do wonder what men classify as promiscuous.

What is considered an average number for a 25 year old woman vs a 50 year old woman.