I'm an 8 out of 10 looks wise... closer to a 9 in DC. Intelligent. Successful. Emotionally Stable.

I'm not crazy but I am am more aggressive than my less attractive counterparts -- men and women -- because, yes, I can get away with it. The combination is the ticket to my success. At home I'm very much the doting wife, though.

My husband and his friends have claimed that I'm a "unicorn."

I dated a woman for 3 years who was really attractive, but also crazy and manipulative. Always trying to make me jealous. One time I received a card from an ex girlfriend saying she was thinking of me. I was stupid enough to show my crazy girlfriend because I didn't want to keep any secrets and I had not desire to go back to her. Well about 3 days later she got a card from her "ex". These sort of things happened all the time. Sex was great she was always ready to go, but probably not just with me. The look on her face when I told her to move out was priceless. No one had ever broke up with her before, lucky she didn't come after me with a knife.

I met my wife afterwards she was even more beautiful than the crazy one, but is sane and smart to go along with it. So not all the hot ones are crazy

Anonymous wrote:But I generally get the impression that there is wide agreement on:
Avoid hot women
Avoid women who love sex.

I don't think so - but that "pick any two" triangle matches my experience. I would not avoid hot women and I sure wouldn't avoid women who love sex, but you might consider if those are the only or even primary factors in choosing a mate. DW is not hot, and only so-so about enjoying sex, but she is smart, funny and gets me, and there's nobody else I'd rather be trapped in a house with (held hostage by a small child).

Anonymous wrote:
Hot women have men chasing them incessantly from puberty onwards and I think that makes it very difficult for them to have "normal" relationships with the opposite sex. I also think it probably sucks for them bigtime - it's not all a cushy ride. I am sure the sense of being seen only as your looks sucks.

Yeah, being propositioned for sex regularly must really, really suck. Only a woman would say that.

Anonymous wrote:I am not sure what the general agreement is here.

Hot (beautiful + sexy) women are crazy?
All women are crazy?
Women who love sex are crazy?
Crazy women love sex?
+ many other combinations.

But I generally get the impression that there is wide agreement on:
Avoid hot women
Avoid women who love sex.

I can't help but wonder what gave you that impression.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was definitely hot in my 20s and completely fucking crazy. Nuts. I had crazy sex with men. I absolutely love sex and was up for anything. I think there's a correlation between passion and craziness. I would completely lose it if a guy broke up with me or didn't give me what I wanted.

Then I grew up. Now I have sex with my husband. Once every two weeks if I'm lucky. It's sad. Once in a while I have a dream about giving a bj. Those were the days.

I doubt all of this.

NP here. I could have written that post, why do you doubt it?

Not PP, but I doubt you can possibly be reduced to dreaming of BJs with a living breathing male specimen in the house.

I have known a lot of crazy women. They are all over on the looks, but tend to attract crazy men. They would feed off each other. I will say the women get away with a lot. Stabbing, stalking, destroying cars, breaking into houses, etc nothing would happen to them...the police were like oh just a love sick woman, we will give her a break.

I am not sure what the general agreement is here.

Hot (beautiful + sexy) women are crazy?
All women are crazy?
Women who love sex are crazy?
Crazy women love sex?
+ many other combinations.

But I generally get the impression that there is wide agreement on:
Avoid hot women
Avoid women who love sex.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was definitely hot in my 20s and completely fucking crazy. Nuts. I had crazy sex with men. I absolutely love sex and was up for anything. I think there's a correlation between passion and craziness. I would completely lose it if a guy broke up with me or didn't give me what I wanted.

Then I grew up. Now I have sex with my husband. Once every two weeks if I'm lucky. It's sad. Once in a while I have a dream about giving a bj. Those were the days.

I doubt all of this.

NP here. I could have written that post, why do you doubt it?

The argument that attractive women can get away with more makes sense. However, I know plenty of young women who are both attractive and crazy. Or shall we say spirited? Bottom line: They're all single. Attractive+crazy is entertaining for a while, but not good enough to make babies. My two cents about what pretty women get away with.

Anonymous wrote:I was definitely hot in my 20s and completely fucking crazy. Nuts. I had crazy sex with men. I absolutely love sex and was up for anything. I think there's a correlation between passion and craziness. I would completely lose it if a guy broke up with me or didn't give me what I wanted.

Then I grew up. Now I have sex with my husband. Once every two weeks if I'm lucky. It's sad. Once in a while I have a dream about giving a bj. Those were the days.

I doubt all of this.

I was definitely hot in my 20s and completely fucking crazy. Nuts. I had crazy sex with men. I absolutely love sex and was up for anything. I think there's a correlation between passion and craziness. I would completely lose it if a guy broke up with me or didn't give me what I wanted.

Then I grew up. Now I have sex with my husband. Once every two weeks if I'm lucky. It's sad. Once in a while I have a dream about giving a bj. Those were the days.

I knew a lady that found out her husband was cheating. Loosened some bolts and stuff on his motorcycle. Then hid in his truck while he was at the gf's house, scared the heck out of him when he got in it. My theory is stay away from crazy people, don't marry them and certainly don't cheat or taunt them.

Woman here. I think some people find the drama exciting and so the roller coaster of crazy can make a person seem more attractive.

Yep, watch those shows Wife's With Knives, Forensic Files, Till Death Due Us Part, Who The Bleep Did I Marry and you may decide to avoid wackos all together. Crazy is not hot.