Anonymous
Post 02/23/2016 06:25     Subject: pre-engaged limbo
Anonymous wrote:There is no pre-engaged. There's only engaged or not. If you're not and you want to be engaged, propose to him. If he says no, leave and find someone new.


There is married or not. Everything else is semantics
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2016 04:28     Subject: pre-engaged limbo
OP, either you are happy or you are unhappy. Thus, FLOW CHART:

Happy? Great, stay in relationship.

Unhappy? Break up.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2016 00:14     Subject: pre-engaged limbo
Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty sure the last time I heard someone say "pre-engaged" I was in HS -- and it was ridiculous then, too.


We had this back in college, where he'd give you his fraternity pin.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2016 21:43     Subject: Re:pre-engaged limbo
hmmmm, do you cook and clean for him? do his laundry? know his family ?
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2016 20:19     Subject: pre-engaged limbo
Anonymous wrote:Why don't you ask him?


The more women nag about this, the more men pull back. It's either there or it's not. I think it's time to move on.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2016 20:07     Subject: pre-engaged limbo
Why don't you ask him?
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2016 19:48     Subject: Re:pre-engaged limbo
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is this Katie from Real Housewives of Potomac? If so, he has his reasons.



That was my first thought too. But honestly, that loser should be jumping to marry her. I wonder every time I watch it how she puts up with his balding, corny ass.


Money and a job. Her husband was below average in the looks dept too.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2016 18:52     Subject: pre-engaged limbo
Anonymous wrote:When is it enough? I wake up at 3 am because I cannot sleep.How long is it supposed to take to make a guy want to marry you?


It might help if you promise that he wont have to do any of the housework.