Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:28     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:That thing in their pants just in front of the two hangy thingies.
Otherwise I'd date a woman.


Girl you dont need to get married for that. This isn't the 1950s.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:25     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
That thing in their pants just in front of the two hangy thingies.
Otherwise I'd date a woman.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:24     Subject: Re:Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:Because babies. That's why we need men.


But now we have sperm banks... and one night stands...
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:23     Subject: Re:Why do women want men so badly?
Because babies. That's why we need men.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:22     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think it is the social pressure to get married. An unmarried man is a bachelor having fun, an unmarried woman having fun is a spinster or floozy. Having a husband is like a social barrier protecting you from mean comments.


Only to a certain point. Unmarried men in their late 30s or 40s who think they are "having fun" usually come across as pathetic and fooling only themselves.


It is this attitude - this societal pressure - that makes people get married when they are otherwise not well suited for marriage. Single = pathetic.

I'm moving to Scandinavia.


I hate to break it to you but they have relationships just like marriages. They just don't have a wedding.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:21     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think it is the social pressure to get married. An unmarried man is a bachelor having fun, an unmarried woman having fun is a spinster or floozy. Having a husband is like a social barrier protecting you from mean comments.


Only to a certain point. Unmarried men in their late 30s or 40s who think they are "having fun" usually come across as pathetic and fooling only themselves.


It is this attitude - this societal pressure - that makes people get married when they are otherwise not well suited for marriage. Single = pathetic.

I'm moving to Scandinavia.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:19     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I believe the point from the other thread, according to one poster, was so you could live in a house rather than a condo. That seemed to be the main selling point.



No. I was responding to the poster talking about how she doesn't need to get married because she has this awesome life in her condo. I was pointing out that actually, condos suck.


Actually not having to deal with all the SFH bullshit is awesome. With the mosquitoes around here, spending thousands for a manicured yard you can enjoy only a couple months a year is madness. YMMV, of course.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:19     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think it is the social pressure to get married. An unmarried man is a bachelor having fun, an unmarried woman having fun is a spinster or floozy. Having a husband is like a social barrier protecting you from mean comments.


Only to a certain point. Unmarried men in their late 30s or 40s who think they are "having fun" usually come across as pathetic and fooling only themselves.


I would say that's true more than women. Men benefit more from marriage. Their happiness goes up during marriage, whereas the opposite happens for women.

Just like men get remarried super fast after divorce, while women dont.

It's just a much better deal for them, and people are starting to catch on.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:19     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think it is the social pressure to get married. An unmarried man is a bachelor having fun, an unmarried woman having fun is a spinster or floozy. Having a husband is like a social barrier protecting you from mean comments.


Only to a certain point. Unmarried men in their late 30s or 40s who think they are "having fun" usually come across as pathetic and fooling only themselves.


Agreed
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:17     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I believe the point from the other thread, according to one poster, was so you could live in a house rather than a condo. That seemed to be the main selling point.



No. I was responding to the poster talking about how she doesn't need to get married because she has this awesome life in her condo. I was pointing out that actually, condos suck.


So you are the same poster, huh? Multiple posting just like you did on the eligible bachelor thread.

You have now convinced me that you work for a matchmaking company. I can see no other reason why someone would be THIS invested in convincing women to get married.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:17     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:I think it is the social pressure to get married. An unmarried man is a bachelor having fun, an unmarried woman having fun is a spinster or floozy. Having a husband is like a social barrier protecting you from mean comments.


Only to a certain point. Unmarried men in their late 30s or 40s who think they are "having fun" usually come across as pathetic and fooling only themselves.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:16     Subject: Re:Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm self-sufficient, and make good money, but this is an expensive town and money only goes so far.
I'd be in a much more comfortable position (and DCUM Middle Class) with a spouse earning similarly to me.

Also, it would be nice for someone to share life with. But need - absolutely not. And in another lower cost of living town, it would solely be for companionship.


+1. I find it interesting that these single women posting are making 500k+ which is how much I would need to replace my husband's income.


I haven't seen anyone posting with that income. I make much less than that but still prefer being single.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:15     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:I believe the point from the other thread, according to one poster, was so you could live in a house rather than a condo. That seemed to be the main selling point.



No. I was responding to the poster talking about how she doesn't need to get married because she has this awesome life in her condo. I was pointing out that actually, condos suck.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:15     Subject: Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I believe the point from the other thread, according to one poster, was so you could live in a house rather than a condo. That seemed to be the main selling point.


But if 95% of people are getting married in the US - that leaves no one to buy all those condos! And condos are going up everywhere. There must be millions of empty condos in this country.


If you are a single woman, it's clear that you are going to be the only person you know above the age of 40 who is single. So there will be no one to live in these condos, which means prices are about to PLUMMET.

Looks like we single ladies are going to get some cheap housing. This is all working out perfectly...
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2016 20:12     Subject: Re:Why do women want men so badly?
Anonymous wrote:I'm self-sufficient, and make good money, but this is an expensive town and money only goes so far.
I'd be in a much more comfortable position (and DCUM Middle Class) with a spouse earning similarly to me.

Also, it would be nice for someone to share life with. But need - absolutely not. And in another lower cost of living town, it would solely be for companionship.


+1. I find it interesting that these single women posting are making 500k+ which is how much I would need to replace my husband's income.