
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:First thought: Gay
Second thought: has some serious personality issues which don't become apparent until he starts dating
Third thought: commitment phobia
+1
Even worse if he's attractive.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Don't automatically count him out. I have a relative who fits the description you gave, and I believe the reason he's never married is that for so long he had this idea that the 'perfect' woman for him was out there, somewhere, and so he never settled down with someone who met 8 out of the 10 things he was looking for. Now he's 50 and the women he meets tend to be divorced women with baggage or much younger women...and I don't think he's into either. He's a great guy, though, and would have made a wonderful father. I think he probably has a lot of women wondering the same things about him that OP is wondering about the man she knows.
Those are called commitment issues.
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he reads DCUM and realizes none of you broads are worth marrying and squeezing out more disturbed special snowflake kids and dealing with your in laws after reading all y'all's posts is not worth it.
-Single childless 40-something male
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he reads DCUM and realizes none of you broads are worth marrying and squeezing out more disturbed special snowflake kids and dealing with your in laws after reading all y'all's posts is not worth it.
-Single childless 40-something male
Anonymous wrote:That he has commitment/ relationship issues.