Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 23:10     Subject: Re:Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
I don't wish to be widowed (how awful!) but I have on occasion thought about how I would handle it if I were. DH is 7 years older than me and not great about taking care of his health so I fully expect that one day he will go before me.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 23:05     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
Anonymous wrote:This is a disgusting post.


Absolutely. Shameful.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 23:04     Subject: Re:Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
OP, it's your marriage that you want dead, not your DH.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 23:01     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
Yes I've fantasized about it in two of my relationships. Once when I was engaged and we ended up not making to the altar. And another time with my now ex husband. I've realized that when I start thinking about that, it's my relationship that is dead.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 22:58     Subject: Re:Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
Anonymous wrote:I admit I have thought it in the past. Then an acquaintance lost her husband suddenly in December. I would not wish that on myself or anyone ever. Particularly anyone with kids.


You wouldn't wish it on yourself. Nice. Burial arrangements ARE a hassle, aren't they?
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 22:25     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
Anonymous wrote:I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.


And losing her father wouldn't be even more sad?
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 22:24     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
No. Next to my children dying, this is my biggest fear. I'm not sure how I could recover .
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 22:14     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
I'm also widowed. All I can ask in response to your post, OP, is whether you and your DH have children together. I wouldn't wish the devastation and heartache my children know upon anyone.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 22:01     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
This is a disgusting post.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 22:01     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
No, but I wish he would decide to leave and go somewhere else, but give me all of his money.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 21:58     Subject: Re:Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
The thread says sometimes, and I presume OP is having a difficult husband. If you're happily married, then this is a horrible thread. But if you're not - sometimes, people do wish to be rid of their troubles, although it's practically a stupid thing to wish for.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 21:35     Subject: Re:Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
I'm a widow. This is a horrible thread.


I'm so sorry for your loss. You're right.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 21:34     Subject: Re:Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
I admit I have thought it in the past. Then an acquaintance lost her husband suddenly in December. I would not wish that on myself or anyone ever. Particularly anyone with kids.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 21:34     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
Anonymous wrote:I do - DH is a jerk and I can't stand being with him. Yet, I don't want a divorce as that would made DD sad.


I'm a widow. This is a horrible thread.
Anonymous
Post 02/05/2016 21:31     Subject: Do you sometimes wish you were widowed
Anonymous wrote:When he was shoveling during the blizzard, I kept thinking that a heart attack wouldn't be so bad.

Please tell me you're trolling.