I think taking the pill may cause this to happen for some women. Can't think of anything else that has changed. Why is the later in life lesbian so common now?

I have been with my DH for 15 years. I have never been with a women or even thought about it till about 4 months ago when I met this women, and have fallen in love with her. We are having an affair, first I though it was just attention seeking on my part. Then I thought maybe it was just the connection I had to thus one women. Now I am questioning my sexuality all together and wondering if I should end my marriage to a man because I might be gay.
OP, check out the book Dear John, I Love Jane; warning it is extremely eye opening and hit home on many different things I have been feeling. I am currently in therapy trying to figure myself out

I think sexuality is on a continuum. Some folks are at one end - completely gay - or the other - completely straight. But I think quite a few folks are a notch or several toward the middle. It doesn't necessarily mean you're gay or bi.

I often find women attractive, always have, but I have no particular desire to sleep with them or date them. I do appreciate beauty in all forms, though - people, landscapes, architecture, fashion. I find men attractive and do want to sleep with them and date them, so I consider myself straight.

Anonymous wrote:I am attracted to women. I have kissed girls rubbed boobs, but the thought of oral sex with a woman makes me sick. I gagged.

Same here but I have been with a woman as the receiver. I guess you could say that I was the guest star in a threesome with a couple. She was really beautiful. There wasn't a blemish on her entire body. She was definitely the best oral I've ever had but I couldn't see returning the favor no matter how beautiful she was.

I'm bi, but it took me a long time to accept that because we are not *really* accepted by the lgbt community and obviously are not hetero.

But you just know. If you're attracted to women, you're probably attracted to women.