Anonymous wrote:TJ Parent here: I agree with PP who said that most TJ kids are a standout at something. My son's "thing" is mobile app programming. TJ is not for every highly able, highly motivated child because the amount of homework is extreme (read: 5 hours/night; 6-8 hours on Sat AND Sun) which bogs them down quite considerably. While my son enjoys it, he definitely has his moments where he has questioned his decision -- and we have also had our moments where we want to pull him and send him to his base HS. Think carefully about deciding to allow your child to attend -- it affects the whole family. Case in point, we RARELY do anything as a family anymore (even a family dinner out). My son typically can't join us -- he's got to study.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:TJ mom here: You asked for a portrait. Most of the TJ students that I have met are outstanding in something. That is, they are head and shoulders above the rest of the ordinary students and very motivated to pursue it. I have not yet met a TJ student that does not spend a great deal of time on homework -- that is a downside of TJ if your student does not like or tolerate a lot of homework time. TJ is like going to junior college at 14.
OP here. Thanks. This is helpful. This does not sound like my daughter. We are going to really talk with her about why she wants to go through the application process. If she has a good reason (I think it could be a good opportunity to learn x, I want to work through the application process), great. If not, we will try to gently dissuade her. She is smart, but not any smarter than any of her peers. She loves (some types of) science but also has non-STEM interests and aptitudes.
Anonymous wrote:TJ Parent here: I agree with PP who said that most TJ kids are a standout at something. My son's "thing" is mobile app programming. TJ is not for every highly able, highly motivated child because the amount of homework is extreme (read: 5 hours/night; 6-8 hours on Sat AND Sun) which bogs them down quite considerably. While my son enjoys it, he definitely has his moments where he has questioned his decision -- and we have also had our moments where we want to pull him and send him to his base HS. Think carefully about deciding to allow your child to attend -- it affects the whole family. Case in point, we RARELY do anything as a family anymore (even a family dinner out). My son typically can't join us -- he's got to study.
this sounds awful even if it is for a good cause....and even if the teen thinks the challenge is good. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.Anonymous wrote:TJ is not for every highly able, highly motivated child because the amount of homework is extreme (read: 5 hours/night; 6-8 hours on Sat AND Sun) which bogs them down quite considerably. While my son enjoys it, he definitely has his moments where he has questioned his decision -- and we have also had our moments where we want to pull him and send him to his base HS. Think carefully about deciding to allow your child to attend -- it affects the whole family. Case in point, we RARELY do anything as a family anymore (even a family dinner out). My son typically can't join us -- he's got to study.
Anonymous wrote:I have not yet met a TJ student that does not spend a great deal of time on homework -- that is a downside of TJ if your student does not like or tolerate a lot of homework time. TJ is like going to junior college at 14.
I have a freshman at TJ this year. I would agree with this. I think a kid who will do well at TJ is one who is not unhappy at the thought of having a great deal of homework and wants an academically challenging course load.
I was on the fence with DD. After she was accepted, to let her know what she would be in for, we sat down and worked up scenarios for several 4 year schedules based on some of the senior research lab topics that interested her. I knew letting her go to TJ was not a bad idea when she looked at the schedules (some of which horrified me), and she said "This sounds awesome!!"
That being said, she feels like she has found a home. She has joined a group activity that she would likely have had little chance of joining at our base high school, and she is having a fantastic time. Yes, there is a TON of homework, but she is enjoying herself.
I have not yet met a TJ student that does not spend a great deal of time on homework -- that is a downside of TJ if your student does not like or tolerate a lot of homework time. TJ is like going to junior college at 14.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:TJ mom here: You asked for a portrait. Most of the TJ students that I have met are outstanding in something. That is, they are head and shoulders above the rest of the ordinary students and very motivated to pursue it. I have not yet met a TJ student that does not spend a great deal of time on homework -- that is a downside of TJ if your student does not like or tolerate a lot of homework time. TJ is like going to junior college at 14.
OP here. Thanks. This is helpful. This does not sound like my daughter. We are going to really talk with her about why she wants to go through the application process. If she has a good reason (I think it could be a good opportunity to learn x, I want to work through the application process), great. If not, we will try to gently dissuade her. She is smart, but not any smarter than any of her peers. She loves (some types of) science but also has non-STEM interests and aptitudes.
Anonymous wrote:TJ mom here: You asked for a portrait. Most of the TJ students that I have met are outstanding in something. That is, they are head and shoulders above the rest of the ordinary students and very motivated to pursue it. I have not yet met a TJ student that does not spend a great deal of time on homework -- that is a downside of TJ if your student does not like or tolerate a lot of homework time. TJ is like going to junior college at 14.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:TJ admission really is more about test scores than anything else..
I went to MIT, but I won't be encouraging my child to apply.
That's false - the test score is one of 4 things they look at. There are many reasons for your child to not apply, but the fact they use an admission test shouldn't be one of them.
You have to pass the threshold on the test before they will look at the other three things. That puts the test as gatekeeper.
Actually, it is test scores in conjunction with grades in school that are used as the cutoffs for semifinalist. So, a poor test taker with great grades will move on to the next round, as will a kid who maybe wasn't too serious about school in seventh grade or maybe had a tough time adjusting to middle school who is very bright and does great on the test. It is not just the standardized test that determines who moves in to the next round.
But I thought there was a cut-off or minimum score you had to have to advance. Have they changed that?