Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:46     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That I wish he'd lose the weight and that it impacts how attracted I am to him.

+1


Me too, wish SHE'd lose the weight. Complete turn off! Sorry I'm just not wired to have any sexual attraction to a fat woman.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:31     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Brush your teeth before going to bed. Seriously. Last night was like kissing a taco and was a real turn-off. This from a DH.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:29     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.


What did you tell him vs. the true number?


Told him 2, real number is 7.


Um, you're wasting a whole lot of angst over 5 partners?


Goes to honesty. My DW told me two then a few years later let slip that there was a third. Why would she have lied about him to begin with? I have to assume that there were more than that.


Notice how women never worry about this? No woman has ever asked me this question.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:13     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.


What did you tell him vs. the true number?


Told him 2, real number is 7.


Um, you're wasting a whole lot of angst over 5 partners?


Goes to honesty. My DW told me two then a few years later let slip that there was a third. Why would she have lied about him to begin with? I have to assume that there were more than that.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:09     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.


What did you tell him vs. the true number?


Told him 2, real number is 7.


BFD...unless the number is 107
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:09     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.


What did you tell him vs. the true number?


Told him 2, real number is 7.


Um, you're wasting a whole lot of angst over 5 partners?
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:08     Subject: Re:What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
I would tell my DW that I dream of fucking other women all day long when I see them out in public and at work. Would not tell her I have fucked a few.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:05     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That I have given up nagging him about brushing his teeth, but it doesn't mean his breath has improved. It just means I can't stand talking about it anymore. Sigh. Why can't a grown man brush his teeth?



UGH. There are two men like this? My husband is the same. Unbelievably disgusting and annoying.


Three. And to answer subsequent poster: no, this started after the wedding.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 13:03     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.


What did you tell him vs. the true number?


Told him 2, real number is 7.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 12:47     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.


What did you tell him vs. the true number?
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 12:43     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
I have lied about my number of sexual partners for almost 20 years. Told the lie once and never found a way to tell the truth. And he is totally one that will be hurt by the dishonesty even 20 years later. Wish that I was mature enough to go with the "none of your business" line at the time.

I am convinced that when I am old and forgetful that I will let it slip.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 12:42     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
That he's a terrible kisser. TAKE MY LEAD, DAMNIT!
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 12:42     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
I wish my wife had a smaller vagina and was better in bed.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 12:40     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
Anonymous wrote:I wish he had a bigger penis and generally better in bed. I suspect he knows i feel this way but would love to just be able to gt it off my chest and say it out loud.


I guarantee he does know, it can be pretty obvious. The better in bed thing can be worked on, so you might let him know.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2016 12:15     Subject: What would you really like to tell your spouse or partner but can't or won't?
I'm 90% sure that I'm going to end things.