Anonymous wrote:Costco and paper plates.

And a maid for 4 hours a day? OP has a stocked pantry, she doesn't want to pay for the munchers and clean up after them since they don't offer to bring anything or to clean up ever.

OP: decline with as little explanation as you can. "We won't be able to host you this time. have a great visit with your XYZ auntie." Leave it at that. Every single word beyond that will sound apologetic and looking for an excuse. Your house - your time - your resources: you don't need to explain anything. They might think it's odd, but it's your life, they will get used to it.

Costco and paper plates.