Anonymous wrote:2 reasons

1. Women become insanely desperate from ages 28-32 with the idea of their ticking clock will explode like a bomb. These women ... we will call them 'easy pickins".... 1 chick who is desperate to find a man will bang multiple married men hoping one "unhappily" married man will leave his wife.

2. we know men are stupid and women are crazy, 1 crazy woman will bang multiple stupid men that think they can get away with it (until the rabbit boils).

So where do I find these women you speak of ?????

2 reasons

1. Women become insanely desperate from ages 28-32 with the idea of their ticking clock will explode like a bomb. These women ... we will call them 'easy pickins".... 1 chick who is desperate to find a man will bang multiple married men hoping one "unhappily" married man will leave his wife.

2. we know men are stupid and women are crazy, 1 crazy woman will bang multiple stupid men that think they can get away with it (until the rabbit boils).

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Anonymous wrote:Women on the other hand can get laid anywhere anytime regardless of class or income.

This is a myth that DCUM perpetuates. Anywhere? Anytime? Really?

Sure. I'm not saying that it would necessarily be your ideal partner, but if a woman wants to get laid this afternoon then they can. Just go into any hotel bar and put on a sign that says "looking to get laid" and you'll have a dozen choices in the next two hours. Most men couldn't get laid in a given afternoon without pulling out a credit card.

People are ALWAYS saying this on DCUM but I think its crap.

When I was single I could NOT find someone to hook up with whenever I wanted. And while I'm certainly not Cindy Crawford I would say I'm not ugly at all. Solidly middle of the road, good features and less good but overall a clean and attractive package. And I'm only 30 so not old. And yet if you today would pay me actual money to go do it with a stranger I would have no idea how to go about doing that with a guarantee of success. Just like, I dunno get drunk and go to a club or something? That did not always work for me when I was single.

Of course you could. What you mean is that you couldn't find someone who appealed to you. I get that. But if you simply wanted sex this afternoon and were willing to compromise on your ideals you absolutely could. You know this.

Again, not so for men, regardless of how much they might lower their standards.

OK so two people responded with essentially the same comment.

Seriously I dont think I could. If I saw someone that DID appeal to me I wouldn't know how to immediately turn that encounter into having sex. WTF, you really think if I just walked up to a guy and asked if he wanted to go do it he'd say yes? Aren't people worried about STDs? If Brad Pitt walked up to me and said that I don't think I'd say yes, so weird. I do not 'know this.'

I think this must just be a belief from guys who believe they are below the 'standards' most women have to make themselves feel better? This is a really strange conviction I think. Because I GENUINELY think that if I went to a hotel bar as some other guy suggested and started to strike up conversations that people would look at me like I was crazy. Any person, regardless of gender, sitting alone at a bar drinking for hours does not really seem that appealing for conversation or sex.

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Anonymous wrote:Not only that, but there are some single men who have a thing for married women. They get off on it.

Literally!

Yes it's definitely true that lots of single guys like hooking up with married women. They see it as great no strings sex.

To further complicate the math, assume that these are men who are very successful with these women because they are more appealing (at least more appealing than the husband they are cheating on) than other men so they are likely to have had sex with multiple married women. This further debunks the simplistic idea that for each cheating spouse there is a cheating spouse of the opposite sex so it's a 50/50 split.

Agreed. Adding to your algorithm, prostitutes/escorts, massage parlors and the fact that some married men also maintain multiple non sex worker married or single women APs at the same time. I think most women chase the love affair -- serial monogamish relations on the side. All in all, I'd bet that more men cheat given the variety of more socially acceptable cheating options for men. Married women risk a lot -- becoming a modern Hester Prynne.

Why do people who have never had cheated/ had affairs like to ask questions and speculate about them?

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Anonymous wrote:Women on the other hand can get laid anywhere anytime regardless of class or income.

This is a myth that DCUM perpetuates. Anywhere? Anytime? Really?

Sure. I'm not saying that it would necessarily be your ideal partner, but if a woman wants to get laid this afternoon then they can. Just go into any hotel bar and put on a sign that says "looking to get laid" and you'll have a dozen choices in the next two hours. Most men couldn't get laid in a given afternoon without pulling out a credit card.

People are ALWAYS saying this on DCUM but I think its crap.

When I was single I could NOT find someone to hook up with whenever I wanted. And while I'm certainly not Cindy Crawford I would say I'm not ugly at all. Solidly middle of the road, good features and less good but overall a clean and attractive package. And I'm only 30 so not old. And yet if you today would pay me actual money to go do it with a stranger I would have no idea how to go about doing that with a guarantee of success. Just like, I dunno get drunk and go to a club or something? That did not always work for me when I was single.

Just do what men have always done: lower your standards. Problem solved. The difference is you would not have to lower your standards as far as a male mirror image of you would.

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Anonymous wrote:Women on the other hand can get laid anywhere anytime regardless of class or income.

This is a myth that DCUM perpetuates. Anywhere? Anytime? Really?

Sure. I'm not saying that it would necessarily be your ideal partner, but if a woman wants to get laid this afternoon then they can. Just go into any hotel bar and put on a sign that says "looking to get laid" and you'll have a dozen choices in the next two hours. Most men couldn't get laid in a given afternoon without pulling out a credit card.

People are ALWAYS saying this on DCUM but I think its crap.

When I was single I could NOT find someone to hook up with whenever I wanted. And while I'm certainly not Cindy Crawford I would say I'm not ugly at all. Solidly middle of the road, good features and less good but overall a clean and attractive package. And I'm only 30 so not old. And yet if you today would pay me actual money to go do it with a stranger I would have no idea how to go about doing that with a guarantee of success. Just like, I dunno get drunk and go to a club or something? That did not always work for me when I was single.

Of course you could. What you mean is that you couldn't find someone who appealed to you. I get that. But if you simply wanted sex this afternoon and were willing to compromise on your ideals you absolutely could. You know this.

Again, not so for men, regardless of how much they might lower their standards.

Stupid op. Get a life.

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Anonymous wrote:Women on the other hand can get laid anywhere anytime regardless of class or income.

This is a myth that DCUM perpetuates. Anywhere? Anytime? Really?

Sure. I'm not saying that it would necessarily be your ideal partner, but if a woman wants to get laid this afternoon then they can. Just go into any hotel bar and put on a sign that says "looking to get laid" and you'll have a dozen choices in the next two hours. Most men couldn't get laid in a given afternoon without pulling out a credit card.

People are ALWAYS saying this on DCUM but I think its crap.

When I was single I could NOT find someone to hook up with whenever I wanted. And while I'm certainly not Cindy Crawford I would say I'm not ugly at all. Solidly middle of the road, good features and less good but overall a clean and attractive package. And I'm only 30 so not old. And yet if you today would pay me actual money to go do it with a stranger I would have no idea how to go about doing that with a guarantee of success. Just like, I dunno get drunk and go to a club or something? That did not always work for me when I was single.

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Anonymous wrote:Not only that, but there are some single men who have a thing for married women. They get off on it.

Literally!

Yes it's definitely true that lots of single guys like hooking up with married women. They see it as great no strings sex.

To further complicate the math, assume that these are men who are very successful with these women because they are more appealing (at least more appealing than the husband they are cheating on) than other men so they are likely to have had sex with multiple married women. This further debunks the simplistic idea that for each cheating spouse there is a cheating spouse of the opposite sex so it's a 50/50 split.

Anonymous wrote:Not only that, but there are some single men who have a thing for married women. They get off on it.

Literally!

Yes it's definitely true that lots of single guys like hooking up with married women. They see it as great no strings sex.

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Anonymous wrote:Women. Easy to find an AP and easy to not get caught bc men rarely suspect. Women are also more likely to keep secrets. Every woman I know has at least one secret she is taking to her grave and has shared with maybe only one other soul.

I know women who aren't sure of their kids' paternity, who have faces extensively reworked by plastic surgery in their teens/early 20s that they are pretending are theirs naturally (so common among Jews), who have slept with their husband's relatives, who have had multiple abortions while espousing pro-life beliefs, or who deliberately got pregnant to trap a man while acting shocked to be knocked up, who have done all sorts of things.

And they go about with straight faces never thinking of telling DH. Men, on the other hand, often either confess or get sloppy with the evidence. Then DW goes nuts as if she hasn't done worse, lol.

Okay, but they are cheating with a MAN... or are all these SAHMs lesbians? WTF... aren't there EQUAL numbers of men to women having affairs?

First, I didn't say anything about SAHMs. I know both working moms and SAHMs.

Second, just because a woman is married doesn't mean she has to cheat with a married man or go Lesbian. Single men exist and are more desirable. What DW wants someone else's harried, tired husband? We have one at home already.

Not only that, but there are some single men who have a thing for married women. They get off on it. Not saying there aren't women like this as well, but I think the numbers are lopsided.

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Anonymous wrote:Women. Easy to find an AP and easy to not get caught bc men rarely suspect. Women are also more likely to keep secrets. Every woman I know has at least one secret she is taking to her grave and has shared with maybe only one other soul.

I know women who aren't sure of their kids' paternity, who have faces extensively reworked by plastic surgery in their teens/early 20s that they are pretending are theirs naturally (so common among Jews), who have slept with their husband's relatives, who have had multiple abortions while espousing pro-life beliefs, or who deliberately got pregnant to trap a man while acting shocked to be knocked up, who have done all sorts of things.

And they go about with straight faces never thinking of telling DH. Men, on the other hand, often either confess or get sloppy with the evidence. Then DW goes nuts as if she hasn't done worse, lol.

Okay, but they are cheating with a MAN... or are all these SAHMs lesbians? WTF... aren't there EQUAL numbers of men to women having affairs?

First, I didn't say anything about SAHMs. I know both working moms and SAHMs.

Second, just because a woman is married doesn't mean she has to cheat with a married man or go Lesbian. Single men exist and are more desirable. What DW wants someone else's harried, tired husband? We have one at home already.

Anonymous wrote:Women. Easy to find an AP and easy to not get caught bc men rarely suspect. Women are also more likely to keep secrets. Every woman I know has at least one secret she is taking to her grave and has shared with maybe only one other soul.

I know women who aren't sure of their kids' paternity, who have faces extensively reworked by plastic surgery in their teens/early 20s that they are pretending are theirs naturally (so common among Jews), who have slept with their husband's relatives, who have had multiple abortions while espousing pro-life beliefs, or who deliberately got pregnant to trap a man while acting shocked to be knocked up, who have done all sorts of things.

And they go about with straight faces never thinking of telling DH. Men, on the other hand, often either confess or get sloppy with the evidence. Then DW goes nuts as if she hasn't done worse, lol.

Okay, but they are cheating with a MAN... or are all these SAHMs lesbians? WTF... aren't there EQUAL numbers of men to women having affairs?

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Anonymous wrote:Women on the other hand can get laid anywhere anytime regardless of class or income.

This is a myth that DCUM perpetuates. Anywhere? Anytime? Really?

Sure. I'm not saying that it would necessarily be your ideal partner, but if a woman wants to get laid this afternoon then they can. Just go into any hotel bar and put on a sign that says "looking to get laid" and you'll have a dozen choices in the next two hours. Most men couldn't get laid in a given afternoon without pulling out a credit card.